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im really upset and sad and im looking for some pony to talk to. please.
Monday, 18-Jun-12 18:10:30 UTC from web-
@cloudchaser Oh man, whats wrong?
Monday, 18-Jun-12 18:10:56 UTC from web -
@cloudchaser Whats up :<
Monday, 18-Jun-12 18:11:00 UTC from web -
@cloudchaser how you been? What you up to? You okay?
Monday, 18-Jun-12 18:12:34 UTC from StatusNet iPhone -
@woona :o I'll make sure nopony takes your chair :3
Monday, 18-Jun-12 18:13:05 UTC from web -
@woona @renovatedkitchen @sleaze @purplephish20 so today started off fine, i did my french exam then started talking with some guys. sooner or later it lead to us chilling in the park, and then they took someting out of their bag. i knew what it was i have sadly seen this many times before. they lit it, and then i found myself doing what i promised i would stop. i started smoking it. and when we came back to my place my older brother grabbed me by the throat laughed and said you fool. he knows. and now hes blackmailing me. im not sure whether to be a man and fes up to my mom. or live with the guilt and be blackmailed by my older bro. im scared sad and crying right now. i just need help.
Monday, 18-Jun-12 18:14:11 UTC from web-
@cloudchaser What speak against going to your mother and telling this exact story? You WANT help, you WANT to stop. Do you think, she would not like to assist you?
Monday, 18-Jun-12 18:16:03 UTC from web-
@hakupony i hope she will. this whole thing is awful. i wish i could just redo today. i quit and was sober for 6 months. but now im back where i fear most. i hate myself and life right now
Monday, 18-Jun-12 18:18:01 UTC from web-
@cloudchaser Calm down, dude. If you are talking about weed here: this does not lead into physical deendancy, so you can get sober again if you stop now. If you are honest with your mum, your brother has nothing more against you and maybe you have a helping hand to stay clean because of this mistake. Nothing really bad happened yet and if you don't give up on yourself or let your brother win, nothing will.
Monday, 18-Jun-12 18:20:27 UTC from web-
Monday, 18-Jun-12 18:21:49 UTC from web
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@cloudchaser What is he black mailing you for?
Monday, 18-Jun-12 18:16:11 UTC from web-
@sleaze because i smoked. hes stronger than i. he will make me do murdock. give him money, let him beat me. hes a dick.
Monday, 18-Jun-12 18:17:04 UTC from web-
@cloudchaser *hugs* Just because you smoked, he is doing this? D:
Monday, 18-Jun-12 18:18:06 UTC from web-
@derpyshy yeah. hes a nasty dick. he smokes too but im not the kind of man to right someone out. i feel self centered for saying that but i cant
Monday, 18-Jun-12 18:20:19 UTC from web-
@cloudchaser I think you should just tell your mom about it. She might be able to stop you :) *hug*
Monday, 18-Jun-12 18:25:45 UTC from web
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@cloudchaser has he told on you before?
Monday, 18-Jun-12 18:18:22 UTC from web-
@sleaze on other things but never something of this velocity. he has nothing against me and has no supporting argument seeing as he smokes weed all the time, but i cant live guilt free knowing that he has this upperhand
Monday, 18-Jun-12 18:22:59 UTC from web-
@cloudchaser Take Haku advice. My advice because Ive been in situations like that and they do not end well.
Monday, 18-Jun-12 18:25:21 UTC from web-
Monday, 18-Jun-12 18:26:21 UTC from web
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@cloudchaser Afterwards It feels gud to do so. BRING UP UR BROTHERS BLACK MAIL. Be prepared though.
Monday, 18-Jun-12 18:27:14 UTC from web-
@sleaze i will. i dont care if he beats me from it, i know ill have done the right thing. he can beat me but that just proves his own insecurity and lack of power
Monday, 18-Jun-12 18:28:42 UTC from web-
@cloudchaser How much older is your brother. I feel your pain on bad brothers.
Monday, 18-Jun-12 18:29:57 UTC from web-
@sleaze gud luck
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Monday, 18-Jun-12 18:30:26 UTC from web
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@cloudchaser Good luck with your mom and brother.
Monday, 18-Jun-12 18:31:24 UTC from web-
Monday, 18-Jun-12 18:33:09 UTC from web
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@cloudchaser Hey, just to let ya know im also here for ya. Ive never smoked anything in my life, but i do know how tough it is to say no to doing things that everybody else is doing.
Monday, 18-Jun-12 18:36:38 UTC from web-
@techdisk42 thanks :)
Monday, 18-Jun-12 18:37:11 UTC from web-
@cloudchaser no prob! i would offer an IRL hug like @renovatedkitchen, but im not really in control of my own transportation, so #HUGS!
Monday, 18-Jun-12 18:38:29 UTC from web-
@techdisk42 Youre an awesome person too! #Hugs!
Monday, 18-Jun-12 18:39:58 UTC from web-
Monday, 18-Jun-12 18:42:32 UTC from web
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@techdisk42 thanks :) *glomp*
Monday, 18-Jun-12 18:39:59 UTC from web-
@cloudchaser anytime. Im always here for anybody who needs help. i cant just leave someone to their sadness.
Monday, 18-Jun-12 18:42:20 UTC from web-
@techdisk42 thanks
Monday, 18-Jun-12 18:42:45 UTC from web
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@cloudchaser I had the same situation bud. With other things worse than weed. What I did was when my brother mentioned it to parents, I just started talking about it like it didn't matter. It made them confused and not know what to do because it gave me the upper hand. Also murdocked off my brother that I was coo that he told them. You okay bud? You know we can meet if you want
Monday, 18-Jun-12 18:16:59 UTC from StatusNet iPhone-
@renovatedkitchen right now i dont want anyone to see me in the state im in. i want to sit down and talk 1 on 1 with my mom. maybe she will help me and stuff. she knows im better than this. i think its the right choice to talk with her
Monday, 18-Jun-12 18:19:44 UTC from web-
@cloudchaser Please let me know how things worked out. I'm cheering for you.
Monday, 18-Jun-12 18:21:23 UTC from web-
Monday, 18-Jun-12 18:22:01 UTC from web
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@cloudchaser You are welcome.
Monday, 18-Jun-12 18:22:35 UTC from web
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@cloudchaser it probably is. I know how you feel, because I've been there before and it's crap. Being up front and totally cool about it was great for me to do. It took a lot of stress off too. If you ever want to talk or a hug IRL, you know I'm here for you bud. It's a thing that will pass I promise you.
Monday, 18-Jun-12 18:23:05 UTC from StatusNet iPhone-
@renovatedkitchen thanks so much. i may take you up on that hug offer sometime soon :)
Monday, 18-Jun-12 18:24:11 UTC from web-
@cloudchaser any time bud. I'll be here. But when you do talk with her, start with something unexpected so that you have the upper hand. Or say it infront of your brother. Personally I thought it was funny because then he walked off because he had nothing to say, because I was so upfront with it. I believe in you bud
Monday, 18-Jun-12 18:28:58 UTC from StatusNet iPhone-
@renovatedkitchen thanks so much man. im going to say the exact things ive said to you all. i need her to know how sad and angry i am at myself because of this
Monday, 18-Jun-12 18:30:10 UTC from web-
@cloudchaser gud luck * >_>
Monday, 18-Jun-12 18:30:30 UTC from web -
@cloudchaser that should work. Want me to DM you my cell number?
Monday, 18-Jun-12 18:31:11 UTC from StatusNet iPhone-
@renovatedkitchen sure
Monday, 18-Jun-12 18:33:04 UTC from web-
@cloudchaser sent it
Monday, 18-Jun-12 18:36:38 UTC from web-
@renovatedkitchen i think my brother stole my phone and is making me confront him, so currently i cant text sorry
Monday, 18-Jun-12 18:37:33 UTC from web-
@cloudchaser No problem bud. Keep it somewhere, if you cant get your phone and need a hug IRL, just call me. Im honestly the last person to judge anyone. If you want to call just to ask the colour of my wall, go ahead. Im always happy to hear from anyone
Monday, 18-Jun-12 18:39:26 UTC from web-
@renovatedkitchen thanks so much :)
Monday, 18-Jun-12 18:40:16 UTC from web-
@cloudchaser Not a problem bud. Seriously, Im here for you if you need anything.
Monday, 18-Jun-12 18:41:10 UTC from web-
@renovatedkitchen thanks
Monday, 18-Jun-12 18:41:53 UTC from web-
Monday, 18-Jun-12 18:48:24 UTC from web
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@cloudchaser Was this just a ciggarette? Or something "stronger"? If it was a ciggarette I reccoment just casually bringing it up to your mum along the lines of "man I tried a ciggarette the other day, never again, that was dole"
Monday, 18-Jun-12 18:18:36 UTC from web-
@purplephish20 it was weed sadly
Monday, 18-Jun-12 18:21:18 UTC from web-
@cloudchaser you could admit it all the same, believe me when I say that in MODERATION there is nothing wrong with weed, just like responsable alcohol use
Monday, 18-Jun-12 18:22:35 UTC from web-
@purplephish20 I agree on this one - alcohol is even more dangerous as weed. The point is that weed is illegal in most countries and there still is a stigma to it. I understand anyony who is worried their parents will be mad at them, but I believe those parents tried that stuff too when they were young )
Monday, 18-Jun-12 18:25:21 UTC from web
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@woona Oh, ok ^3^ *snugglewub*
Monday, 18-Jun-12 18:15:05 UTC from web -
@thatonepony im sorry but id like to not mention that
Monday, 18-Jun-12 18:20:40 UTC from web -
Monday, 18-Jun-12 18:20:53 UTC from web
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@thatonepony once she comes home im going to sit down and talk with her
Monday, 18-Jun-12 18:23:40 UTC from web -
@thatonepony i will mention it and make sure she helps to take action. i feel like im really changing and maturing due to this experience.
Monday, 18-Jun-12 18:27:57 UTC from web -
@cloudchaser Try thinking that they are completely wrong then, and you aren't doing it, because you know what the consequences of it is. Bye, and good luck :)
Monday, 18-Jun-12 18:30:13 UTC from web-
Monday, 18-Jun-12 18:30:45 UTC from web
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@cloudchaser No problem :) this has never happened to me, but that's what I'll think :)
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@cloudchaser Okay, listen to me, I mean this serious. It doesn't matter sh** what some dudes think of you who would look down on you because you say no to drugs. There are enough good people arount who accet the way you want to live. Don't waste your time with losers like that. I personally smoke weed occasionally, but I decited to become a vegitarian - which many people do not understand. But my friends accepted I made that decition and it is no problem for us. This is what Friendship is ABOUT. If your friends dont accept the way you choose to live, they are no friends.
Monday, 18-Jun-12 18:31:55 UTC from web-
Monday, 18-Jun-12 18:33:57 UTC from web
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@cloudchaser Make your own decitions and be roud of them. Stand for your own opinions without talking those of other down. Yes, this requires strength but I believe that everyone has that strength because it is not that hard - because eople usually make fun of those who desperatel want to fit in the crowd and fail so because they are not honest with themselves. And one more thing: watch the eisodes of MLP with that in mind. Read those words of Lauren faust herself and think about what the central message of the show is: http://msmagazine.com/blog/blog/2010/12/24/my-little-non-homophobic-non-racist-non-smart-shaming-pony-a-rebuttal/ Then think about why you like your favourite character so much, why everypony likes his or her favourite character so much. And then think about why you would be liked.
Monday, 18-Jun-12 18:37:04 UTC from web-
@hakupony thanks so much :) you can alone be happy knowing you have helped me the most here to come up with the courage to face my worries and live an honest life :) i sincerely thankyou for this :) i love you mane
Monday, 18-Jun-12 18:39:33 UTC from web-
@cloudchaser You're making me blush.
Monday, 18-Jun-12 18:40:17 UTC from web-
@hakupony Your a great person :>
Monday, 18-Jun-12 18:40:34 UTC from web-
@sleaze Thanks. It's no big deal. All I have to do is write down some words. For that, i get my ego boost and maybe a friend for life. No bad deal, huh?
Monday, 18-Jun-12 18:43:25 UTC from web-
@hakupony Indeed :3
Monday, 18-Jun-12 18:44:10 UTC from web
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