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also that probably sounds stupid coming from me because i'm so young but that's just my experience
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@yata You aren't even 19. Teen romance is crappy and it hardly ever goes well or lasts. Wait until you're older and you'll likely happen upon someone you just match. Trying to have a successful relationship as a teenager is kind of silly and almost always fails. Don't actively look for love though, it doesn't work. Just be open to the chance whenever you happen upon it.
Thursday, 28-Apr-16 02:32:36 UTC from web-
@nerthos yeah i don't actively seek it because doing that only destroyed my self-esteem and basically any sense of self i had. and i know i'm super young and i sound like an idiot but i may feel differently in the future i understand
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@yata Rest assured that you will. It's a wholly different experience when you're in your 20s and your partner isn't going through a hormonal civil war, and cares more about having a lasting relationship than getting laid.
Thursday, 28-Apr-16 02:47:19 UTC from web-
Having a working relationship isn't not all about your age. I know people who came together when they was teens and are married today. But it's right that most relationship s fail when you are young. You have to learn how love works first.
Even many older people aren't able to have a working relationship in these days. I guess it's because the most people are egoistic.-
@themightyglider @nerthos No. I wish more people were egotistical and gave a damn about themselves. But the truth is that most people are contradictory and self-sabotage themselves. Things that happened to them in the past grapeed them up, and they live on with all that baggage. They say they want one thing, but aren't putting in the effort through actions to prove that they want those things... it's more like the opposite. So they don't think they deserve or are worthy of what they claim to want. Most people have poor self-esteem, and it shows. Most people don't properly examine themselves, and work to improve their self-esteem... so they remain stuck as the product of their upbringing. Stuck in their old habits, contradicting ideas/beliefs and unwilling to change because it's hard. As a generalisation, people generally avoid anything painful (Especially if it contradicts their beliefs and ideas), they prefer what is familiar to them and to take t…
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@sim You're right as well.
Thursday, 28-Apr-16 18:01:44 UTC from web-
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Yeah, I suspect it is something from the above. There are probably patterns that one can read into as well.
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@themightyglider Well of course not. I have two friends who have been together for like 8 years since they were... 16 and 18 I think? but it's infinitely more difficult at that age than when older.
Thursday, 28-Apr-16 18:00:13 UTC from web
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