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  1. What do you do when you believe you are in love with someone who has unbelievable high standards ?

    Monday, 12-Aug-13 23:07:05 UTC from web
    1. @critialcloudkicker Oh and has rejected being your friend

      Monday, 12-Aug-13 23:07:45 UTC from web
    2. @critialcloudkicker what do you do when you like someone who doesnt even exist?

      Monday, 12-Aug-13 23:09:00 UTC from web
      1. @mushi I recon that would be easier than having to work with that person. But I'll bite, why do you think you are in love with an unexisting someone ?

        Monday, 12-Aug-13 23:10:38 UTC from web
        1. @critialcloudkicker because some stuff i cant controll

          Monday, 12-Aug-13 23:14:04 UTC from web
          1. @mushi Desires ?

            Monday, 12-Aug-13 23:21:07 UTC from web
            1. @critialcloudkicker no, i just cant controll when i like someone, it just happnes that fictional characters attract more than real people

              Monday, 12-Aug-13 23:22:57 UTC from web
              1. @mushi I think you will find it hard to find a fictional caracter I do not like more than a real person at this point. Go ahead, pick a fictional caracter. If you say Deadpool maybe we will get something interesting though, since Deadpool is actually designed to be unlikeable but I get the feeling I would like him infinitely better than some gigantuaur ass I know

                Monday, 12-Aug-13 23:26:27 UTC from web
    3. @awlderpy Hmm. Well lets just say that I started out one day by asking "why are we not friends ? We both like Dr Who and other SciFi like series." And I ended up learning that she could not see the 2 of us sitting in the same room watching a show EVER. And at the end of the workshift I also learned that she is waiting on her very own prince charming with a nice personlity and ABSOLUTELY NOTHING PHYSICALLY WRONG WITH HIM... Since she has high functioning autism and does not want offspring ( she has enough siblings ) with a special manual... So yea... Train is pretty much stranded there, is it not ?

      Monday, 12-Aug-13 23:18:26 UTC from web
      1. @critialcloudkicker Good luck to her

        Monday, 12-Aug-13 23:21:09 UTC from web
        1. @lunanut Oh, I'll be keeping my eyes and ears open for when she comes crashing down from her high throne. Heck I might even offer her a sturdy shoulder. Even if she did imply I am fat and probably too low in discipline to do anything about it. Because that is what nice guy's do. However if I find my special someone before she comes crashing ( Since I will keep my eyes open ) ... I hope someone has some nice mattresses lying for her

          Monday, 12-Aug-13 23:24:01 UTC from web
          1. @critialcloudkicker Problem with people like her is that typically yes she may "crash from her high throne" and find a nice guy to be with for a bit. But, then later they may get overconfident again and leave that person and go looking for their "prince charming" again

            Monday, 12-Aug-13 23:27:14 UTC from web
            1. @lunanut Are you saying that when they eventually get into a relationship they will, given enough time, go look for something better even though it may not even exist ? ... I agree

              Monday, 12-Aug-13 23:28:50 UTC from web
              1. @critialcloudkicker This comes from a little experience too as my mom did that to my dad...twice.

                Monday, 12-Aug-13 23:29:38 UTC from web
                1. @lunanut Ugh, woman... Sometimes I wish being gay ( or bi, or pan ) was a choice...

                  Monday, 12-Aug-13 23:34:11 UTC from web
                  1. @critialcloudkicker It's all a matter of finding the right women and having both (guy and girl) to focus the same time and commitment to the relationship. Not a lot of people do that now and are usually only in a relationship for there own needs and expect the other to do what they say. At least from my observations

                    Monday, 12-Aug-13 23:37:42 UTC from web
                    1. @lunanut If one person tries to seek control over the other the relationship will usually not last long

                      Monday, 12-Aug-13 23:38:55 UTC from web
                    2. @lunanut *nodnod* Real relationships should be based on doing things for one another, not yourself. Surely you can base it on a few cornerstones and keep some things for yourself. But there needs to be some mutual understandment. And people these days seem to be unable to compromise on ANYTHING

                      Monday, 12-Aug-13 23:42:35 UTC from web
                      1. @critialcloudkicker I agree completely with this statement

                        Monday, 12-Aug-13 23:44:00 UTC from web
                        1. @lunanut "This hobby room is my hobby room and I like it messy" Would be a prime example

                          Monday, 12-Aug-13 23:45:46 UTC from web
    4. @awlderpy Yea, read that part as "no use barking up this tree, there is either nothing up there, or there is pain, misery, and suffering up there, for either me, or the person who finds it

      Monday, 12-Aug-13 23:27:34 UTC from web
    5. @awlderpy What would there be in it for me except possible pain and misery from the get-go ?

      Monday, 12-Aug-13 23:34:55 UTC from web
    6. @awlderpy Oh I am pretty sure I am not even on her mind. Nor do I care that much anyway. Still it would have been nice to share a couch with someone you like and watch DrWho *shrug*... Say when was the last time you were with someone ?

      Monday, 12-Aug-13 23:44:55 UTC from web
    7. @awlderpy What is a smooch, what is a curb ?

      Monday, 12-Aug-13 23:59:28 UTC from web
    8. @awlderpy Seems like my ex, who in fact did give me plenty of company, but did not really expect much off of a broke guy, so perhaps not a smooch. But she did tell me that she never wanted to use a rubber ( so I never had sex with her ) and maybe 2 days later she told me that she really would like to share a bed with me, but that once a month she would be unfaithfull to her current boyfriend and went to sleep with her ex... Yea this really broke it for me... And my heart I guess for I have not dated since

      Tuesday, 13-Aug-13 00:06:32 UTC from web
    9. @awlderpy Murphy's law my friend...

      Tuesday, 13-Aug-13 00:11:50 UTC from web
    10. @awlderpy I am actually kinda thinking of putting myself back on the market... Problem is that nowadays I really have no idea how to do that anymore

      Tuesday, 13-Aug-13 00:17:28 UTC from web