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Well, it looks like I'm going to be spendiing even more time in solitude than before. My only really close IRL friend has just said he doesn't want to talk to me anymore because I don't have the money to go to the cinema at the moment, I had most of my 2 weeks' allowance taken out because I'm paying my mother back for the Wrestlemania 28 trip, and I spend what I had left yesterday at the cinema and on buses etc. And I can't just borrow money willy nilly from her since I'm already paying her back for said trip. He thinks I lie to him all the time and despite my best efforts to talk it ot with him he won't answer my calls or texts. I wouldn't let it bother me so much, but he was pretty much the only company I had outside of my direct family (not counting internet friends) I may pop over his place to try and talk this thing out, but I have my doubts. Now please excuse me while I adjust to constant solitude outside of furmeets due to my social awkwardness outside of them.
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@zachariastargazer Thanks.
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@leonkfox Go to his house! Go to his house, and kick him in. I mean, talk through it.
Thursday, 11-Aug-11 17:33:44 UTC from web-
@thelaIstgherkin I am going to pay him a visit and try to talk this out, but he seems deeply convinced that I'm lying to him so I shan't hold my breath.
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@leonkfox Then at least you'll have tried. That's the most you can do. I'm sure it'll all blow over. :)
Thursday, 11-Aug-11 17:47:33 UTC from web-
@thelastgherkin I hope it does.
Thursday, 11-Aug-11 18:11:57 UTC from web
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@leonkfox Wow. So, he won't communicate with you because you won't do things that cost money with him right now? Seems pretty shallow and self-centered. :(
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@astra He's convinced I'm lying to him, says I could borrow the money from my mother, but he knows damn well I'm paying her back for the trip to Miami for Wrestlemania 28 next year. He also knows I've enjoyed most of the indie films we've gone to see so why he's jumped to the basis that I'm lying to him...I want to give up on everything at times.
Thursday, 11-Aug-11 18:02:49 UTC from web-
@leonkfox As Applejack would say, what a load of horsefeathers. I'm sorry, but even if you COULD borrow money from your mother, it's not right of him to insist that you do so in order to do what he wants, and hold your friendship hostage if you don't. Either he has other issues going on, and is misdirecting his frustration at you, or he's being very self-centered and immature. I hope that he realizes how he's acting, and that talking with him will get his head straight. If not, frankly, you can do better for friends.
Thursday, 11-Aug-11 20:13:34 UTC from web-
@astra He also said that I "ignore things" because I have an "attachment issue" even though I've been to almost every indy film he wants to go to with him, so I don't get why he feels uncomfortable confiding with me all of a sudden.
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@leonkfox That's...terrible. I really wish people were more understanding. Sorry to hear that, and I hope you can work it out with him! D:
Thursday, 11-Aug-11 17:44:37 UTC from web-
@communistprimemon Yeah, so do I.
Thursday, 11-Aug-11 18:02:56 UTC from web
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