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#Question... What are the best concerts youve ever been to?
Friday, 10-Feb-12 18:45:14 UTC from web-
@purplephish20 I only went to one. Live music is not my thing.
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@purplephish20 never been to one
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@purplephish20 I like listening to music through high quality headphones, without all the noise from people around.
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@purplephish20 1. No pony to go with, ever. 2. No money anyway. 3. Always sold out the ones I would want to see. 4. It's a public transport distance, and no transport was or is on when they'd of finished anyway. But 1. Is the major reason
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@purplephish20 I don't usually go to concerts. Mostly because it always smells like weed and I don't get any of it.
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@purplephish20 I'm not a crowd-type so concerts aren't my thing. Nopony else likes the music I do anyways.
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@purplephish20 not really, I prefer the quiet solitude being around that many people would lead me to having a panic attack.
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@mrdragon not really, its a very unified feel if your all there for the same reason, everypony is friendly, not like a random crowded club or something...
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@purplephish20 What, mayhem? xD
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@purplephish20 I suffer from serious anxiety and nervous disorders, as well as some psychological issues with meeting others. I am highly insecure around people in real life if I have no one I know around me, and even then in group sizes that big would really make me feel threatened and lead to a panic attack. I have true reasons why I have only one real life friend, I truly cannot meet others. Years of mental and psychological bullying and punishments lead to having long term issues.
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@mrdragon You're essentially a worse off version of me. I'm sorry to hear that. I propose more hugs in your general direction.
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@purplephish20 there are times were I can be in a great mood and be fine. But even then around that many people.. I'd find the nearest escape route and bolt. I can't start conversations with people either, I struggle, I was abused in to believing asking for anything was wrong and that I should cry and die in a hole as no cared. That's not true, but after years of it, its stuck. Even when I really want something, or need desperate help ill be quiet as a mouse and suffer. I'm thankfully growing out of that, if somepony talks to me first I can talk easily, but I cannot start one.
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@phoenixswift many many mental beatings and physical bullying, leads to some problems. It's made me stronger, but had also impaired me greatly
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@mrdragon I know that feel on the conversations part, at least. Have some Dashie. http://ur1.ca/83icp
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@mrdragon Im pleased youve started posting more and expressing yourself, as opposed to being as lurking background banhammer... you're a great guy and I CAN relate to that sort of thing, I had mostly an awful time at secondary school that effects me to this day
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@mrdragon I had an issue with that as well, but not on your level. It wasn't so much abuse as it was be generally ignored and not wanted anywhere outside of my home growing up. But you get this all the same. *hugs*
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@purplephish20 I was made to believe that being alone was better, that emotions were nothing but a weakness and hurting others was the path to power... I don't think I can ever thank @tavi enough for changing everything in one second when she confessed to me.. that and this entire fandom for reviving the child inside of me again. Anyway.. enough cry time, I left my past far behind 5 months ago. No need to dwell in it, but I can safely say I won't be at a concert any time yet.
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@phoenixswift thank you, I always kept quiet but working with my lady @tavi has slowly changed me into a better person
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@mrdragon That gave me emotions......
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@purplephish20 I've been considering creating a long comic about it all, but my talents must grow first.
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@purplephish20 opposites attract as they say, and we are nearly the complete opposite of each other.
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@mrdragon It's good you've got someone to help you. That's something I never got. But anyways! I think we're done here. I doubt anypony else particular wants to read about all this. I need to get back to work anyways.
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@phoenixswift indeed, I don't think we should drag the chat in to that area right now either. It's been said, so we can move on. Life goes on as they say.
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