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  1. Pony Pony

    well.. hmm.. I don't know whetther to talk about it here or not. Right now I still have a plan of action so I don't really feel entirely trapped, but sometimes my marriage is hellish

    Sunday, 08-Apr-12 05:35:22 UTC from web
    1. RDN's Lucifer RDN's Lucifer

      @pony There's always divorce!

      Sunday, 08-Apr-12 05:36:22 UTC from web
      1. Toothpaste Pony! Toothpaste Pony!

        @nerthos That's mean. xD

        Sunday, 08-Apr-12 05:36:50 UTC from web
        1. RDN's Lucifer RDN's Lucifer

          @minti Why? If the marriage is bad, the solution is divorce, that's why it exists xD

          Sunday, 08-Apr-12 05:37:42 UTC from web
      2. Pony Pony

        @nerthos @minti that would be a last resort. Right after living in misery hoping she changes for about 10 more years

        Sunday, 08-Apr-12 05:37:36 UTC from web
        1. RDN's Lucifer RDN's Lucifer

          @pony Give her a year, then divorce. Don't ruin your life waiting. Unless you're questing for immortality, you don't have time to waste.

          Sunday, 08-Apr-12 05:38:45 UTC from web
        2. Toothpaste Pony! Toothpaste Pony!

          @pony Mmm. I'm seriously curious about what's wrong now. :/

          Sunday, 08-Apr-12 05:39:36 UTC from web
          1. Pony Pony

            @minti @nerthos lol I'mma be immortal after I die then resurrct.. it will all work out. Some of my greater qualities are loyalty, and patience. I'm working on endurance right now

            Sunday, 08-Apr-12 05:42:47 UTC from web
            1. RDN's Lucifer RDN's Lucifer

              @pony It's no fun if you first have to die xD

              Sunday, 08-Apr-12 05:44:40 UTC from web
              1. Pony Pony

                @nerthos I'm also working on the whole zen thing.. balancing the negative energy in my life with positive. We'll see how it goes. It's still possible we'll divorce, but I'm in no hurry yet

                Sunday, 08-Apr-12 05:46:43 UTC from web
            2. Toothpaste Pony! Toothpaste Pony!

              @pony Haha, one would hope. xD

              Sunday, 08-Apr-12 05:44:53 UTC from web
          2. Pony Pony

            @minti I just had a long chat with my wife about things. it went better than usual, but throughout and afterward she still felt the need to say some terrible things that I can't help but feel were intentionally meant to hurt.

            Sunday, 08-Apr-12 05:44:59 UTC from web
            1. Ethan Emile Ethan Emile

              @pony no, not at all, sometimes i think there is a velociraptor in my closet with a knife in its claw that wants to kill me

              Sunday, 08-Apr-12 05:46:30 UTC from web
              1. Pony Pony

                @midnightoil Best of luck with that! maybe cuddling a pony would help? http://ur1.ca/8ygrs

                Sunday, 08-Apr-12 05:50:02 UTC from web
            2. Toothpaste Pony! Toothpaste Pony!

              @pony Ehh. I've been in that situation before, it sucks. All you can really do is pick yourself back up, and maybe examine what they said to see if there's any truth in it (usually not xD).

              Sunday, 08-Apr-12 05:46:45 UTC from web
              1. Pony Pony

                @minti yeah. I feel very supported right now though. I think I'll be fine as long as we can ignore each other the rest of tonight and maybe tomorrow.

                Sunday, 08-Apr-12 05:51:39 UTC from web
                1. Scribus Scribus

                  @pony Have you tried counselling? As a couple or alone? Though, I'd lean towards as a couple.

                  Sunday, 08-Apr-12 05:52:56 UTC from web
                  1. Pony Pony

                    @scribus both yes. She's refusing to continue couples counselling.

                    Sunday, 08-Apr-12 05:53:41 UTC from web
                    1. Scribus Scribus

                      @pony Boy, that's an. . . unpleasant sign. :( Guess you've probably asked why she won't go on with it?

                      Sunday, 08-Apr-12 05:54:33 UTC from web
                      1. Pony Pony

                        @scribus she feels it doesn't help, that nothing changes. I think she'll yield if I ask her again later.

                        Sunday, 08-Apr-12 05:55:24 UTC from web
                        1. Scribus Scribus

                          @pony Well, however it goes, hope it ends well. For you both, as individuals if not as a couple.

                          Sunday, 08-Apr-12 05:56:26 UTC from web
                          1. Pony Pony

                            @scribus divorce is always lose-lose, but it may mean the difference between loss and absolute devastation so yeah.. In any case I believe in her and in my supports

                            Sunday, 08-Apr-12 05:58:36 UTC from web
                            1. Scribus Scribus

                              @pony Yeah, it may be lose-lose, but sometimes it's better to lose with a chance to try again instead of finding out you've lost when it's way too late to have a second shot. (Hope that made sense)

                              Sunday, 08-Apr-12 06:00:16 UTC from web
                              1. Pony Pony

                                @scribus I get what you mean yeah. I wouldn't quit for a second shot though. I'd quit because the situation is hopeless otherwise. I still feel hope though. I'll be consulting with my ecclesiastical leader. Its helping to talk about it here as well. Thnak you.

                                Sunday, 08-Apr-12 06:03:03 UTC from web
                                1. Scribus Scribus

                                  @pony Rooting for ya.

                                  Sunday, 08-Apr-12 06:03:40 UTC from web
                                  1. Toothpaste Pony! Toothpaste Pony!

                                    @scribus @pony Ditto.

                                    Sunday, 08-Apr-12 06:04:52 UTC from web
                                    1. Pony Pony

                                      @minti @scribus thanks so much!

                                      Sunday, 08-Apr-12 06:05:38 UTC from web
                2. Toothpaste Pony! Toothpaste Pony!

                  @pony Well you've got my support. :p And probably everypony else's here.

                  Sunday, 08-Apr-12 05:55:12 UTC from web
                  1. Pony Pony

                    @minti Thank you! I really appreciate that :.)

                    Sunday, 08-Apr-12 05:56:03 UTC from web
    2. Pony Pony

      @yuri just a blip in eternity in other words.

      Sunday, 08-Apr-12 05:52:46 UTC from web
    3. Pony Pony

      @yuri As is ecumenical. :D

      Sunday, 08-Apr-12 06:06:08 UTC from web