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  1. Hey... I'm Fluttershy. I saw this site and made an account. I hope you don't mind...

    Tuesday, 05-Apr-11 01:06:59 UTC from web
    1. @vt3c Wimp

      Tuesday, 19-Nov-13 02:17:55 UTC from web
    2. @vt3c If I've learnt anything from girls, it's that they don't want that. They would rather a real boyfriend than that 1000 times over.

      Tuesday, 19-Nov-13 02:18:39 UTC from web
    3. @vt3c everyone hopes for this.

      Tuesday, 19-Nov-13 02:19:39 UTC from web
    4. @vt3c I mean this in a friendly way, my son

      Tuesday, 19-Nov-13 02:20:29 UTC from web
    5. @vt3c I don't understand /why/ you need to remain single though

      Tuesday, 19-Nov-13 02:21:49 UTC from web
      1. @scoot If he's anything like me, he's terrified of looking like a dumbass.

        Tuesday, 19-Nov-13 02:23:13 UTC from web
        1. @mrmattimation You gotta take risks or you'll never get anywhere

          Tuesday, 19-Nov-13 02:24:31 UTC from web
          1. @scoot I know, I know. Awkward voices and less-than-stellar looks make getting anywhere difficult, though.

            Tuesday, 19-Nov-13 02:27:05 UTC from web
            1. @mrmattimation Self confidence and the ability to bounce back and you're golden. I don't think much to myself but I'm resilient and I just act confident even though I'm not and it works, trust me. (Also looks don't matter if you can make her laugh!)

              Tuesday, 19-Nov-13 02:28:31 UTC from web
              1. @scoot I think first thing's first I need to find out if she's already seeing somebody somehow. I know for a fact I'm not the only guy who feels this way about her.

                Tuesday, 19-Nov-13 02:31:52 UTC from web
                1. @mrmattimation If she is, surely you'd see them around her? Ask one of her friends? Do you even have any mutual friends? If not it's more or less impossible, the best allies you could ever ask for are the girl's friends. I've managed to date girls who had several other dudes chasing her too, you just gotta be the one who gets her attention, it's not easy. Why do you like her?

                  Tuesday, 19-Nov-13 02:34:12 UTC from web
                  1. @scoot Well, besides the fact that she's downright adorable (short Asian girl, black hair), we've been in the same Theatre class since Freshman year and we've become really good friends and she's really nice and fun to talk to.

                    Tuesday, 19-Nov-13 02:35:56 UTC from web
                    1. @mrmattimation It might be pretty difficult then, don't just suddenly tell her all about how you feel or anything, you're gonna need to slowly hint at it and make jokes like "Like he we dated haha" and stuff, put the idea in her mind so she's thinking about it, as it stands you're just her friend and that's all. It definitely won't be easy, the fact you're on good grounds might help though, if possible get friends in on it, setting you up with time alone, hinting at it too, etc. Also best of luck

                      Tuesday, 19-Nov-13 02:38:46 UTC from web
                      1. @scoot Thank you.

                        Tuesday, 19-Nov-13 02:41:02 UTC from web
    6. @vt3c Yes but the trade-off is worth it in most cases. That sucks but eventually you'll find someone who is worth all the time and effort

      Tuesday, 19-Nov-13 02:26:38 UTC from web