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  1. If I didn't know better, I'd swear I'm in a relationship. Not a "change your status on Facebook" relationship, evidently, but a "go out and spend the night together often enough to leave myself confused" one, that's for sure. "Casual," I guess some might say. And I'm already flipping out about how the nigh-inevitable "breakup" will go. I mean, we weren't "together," it was (I mean, IS) sort of a "we're both single, so why not?" deal, but.... I'm by nature stupid and panicky about the uncertain, so here we are. Being dumb. On a rainbow magical horse website. Not how I pictured my 30s turning out. And yet -- no real complaints about it. At least I'm not driving a bus.

    Monday, 08-Dec-14 20:12:51 UTC from MuSTArDroid
    1. @scribus life is sometimes very cute. Having it happen while on a rainbow horse website is just one way of keeping the weirdness of reality on its toes. Good luck ^^

      Monday, 08-Dec-14 20:32:58 UTC from web
      1. @vcgriffin Personally, I'd like just a few days without any weirdness, just long enough to sort out a few things to let me better deal with the regular weirdness.

        Monday, 08-Dec-14 20:54:44 UTC from web
        1. @colfax reality even when being boring is just doing that to mess with you. Again no advice. Always good to see that you are still about though.

          Monday, 08-Dec-14 21:24:28 UTC from web
      2. @vcgriffin What does one get the woman he's seeing-but-not-really-involved-with for Christmas? I don't even know when her birthday is.... Damn. I really didn't think this through when I started.

        Monday, 08-Dec-14 20:58:52 UTC from MuSTArDroid
        1. @scribus depends on what her interests/preferences are but just something to say "i was thinking of you when i saw this", not "i'm committed", if that makes sense and/or isn't too vague.

          Monday, 08-Dec-14 21:11:43 UTC from web
        2. @scribus from what I know of anything, which is nothing first had but just vague inferences of things around me, you should think of something but keep it cool. Its probably no longer a zero sum game.

          Monday, 08-Dec-14 21:16:50 UTC from web
        3. @scribus Just get her something you know she'll enjoy, but doesn't involve much intimacy to use.

          Monday, 08-Dec-14 21:44:05 UTC from web
    2. @scribus i can empathise with the most of this.

      Monday, 08-Dec-14 20:50:12 UTC from web
    3. @scribus Hey, enjoy it. Don't worry about the end before it comes. You'll find how to deal with it once it comes, if ever.

      Monday, 08-Dec-14 21:42:20 UTC from web