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  1. people saying mean things about themselves irks me

    Monday, 25-Jan-16 05:24:49 UTC from web
    1. @yodelerty I know this feeling all too well, and it saddens me

      Monday, 25-Jan-16 05:32:44 UTC from web
      1. @northernnarwhal je suis upset

        Monday, 25-Jan-16 05:33:13 UTC from web
        1. @yodelerty Both the saying mean things about yourself part and the watching other people say mean things about themselves part, and neither are ideal.

          Monday, 25-Jan-16 05:35:36 UTC from web
          1. @northernnarwhal I mean yeah, for sure

            Monday, 25-Jan-16 05:36:03 UTC from web
            1. @yodelerty Like, self criticism and growth is one thing, but grappling with when that instead simply becomes self laceration is kind of difficult. Likewise in the opposite direction too, I think it's important to love yourself but not to the point of arrogance, which is a tough line to draw.

              Monday, 25-Jan-16 05:38:41 UTC from web
              1. @northernnarwhal loving yourself is hard when there's nothing to love tbh

                Monday, 25-Jan-16 05:39:19 UTC from web
                1. @yodelerty I dunno about that. That feels more like a gotcha self-fulfilling prophecy than anything else.

                  Monday, 25-Jan-16 05:45:03 UTC from web
                  1. @northernnarwhal I guess we'll never know

                    Monday, 25-Jan-16 05:45:23 UTC from web
                    1. @yodelerty In any case, it's jarring to see you post this http://rainbowdash.net/notice/4067971 just minutes after posting this http://rainbowdash.net/notice/4067964

                      Monday, 25-Jan-16 05:46:58 UTC from web
                      1. @northernnarwhal I'm a hypocrite

                        Monday, 25-Jan-16 05:47:32 UTC from web
                        1. @yodelerty Not that we all haven't been at some point, but I hope you understand that it really is upsetting to see people you care about unfairly tear themselves apart.

                          Monday, 25-Jan-16 05:49:54 UTC from web
                          1. @northernnarwhal We'll see

                            Monday, 25-Jan-16 05:50:19 UTC from web