loveydoe's status on Sunday, 13-Jul-14 18:05:30 UTC
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@c While I don't want to feed the embers still here, I propose thinking about it as one thinks about comfort. Femininity and masculinity contrast starkly in some ways, and some people feel more comfortable with both traits found in a gender they weren't born into as well as the traits society has imposed on them since birth. As an analogy, I have a hard time with sports, and I would hope no one forces me to practice basketball once a week. For me, shooting hoops would be less valuable than doing something else, but a sporty person might have trouble seeing that value for himself, if, from his perspective, there is no value in not playing basketball. You may not see the value genderfluidity because it isn't valuable for you. :-)
