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  1. cabal cabal

    The Cabal has arrived.

    Monday, 04-Apr-11 23:23:56 UTC from web
    1. scoot scoot

      @c Yes. It's a real thing, well noticed.

      Sunday, 13-Jul-14 17:20:26 UTC from web
    2. Techdisk Techdisk

      @c from what I've heard, it meas that their gender never stays fixed. They can be male one hour, then the next female, then the next somewhere in between. Or something.

      Sunday, 13-Jul-14 17:22:26 UTC from web
    3. scoot scoot

      @c LOL XD no it's people who don't entirely fit either gender at all times, aspects of both conflicting them into feeling more a mix of the two genders, although occasionally having "male days" and "female days".

      Sunday, 13-Jul-14 17:22:42 UTC from web
      1. scoot scoot

        @scoot that LOL XD was sarcastic in case it wasn't clear

        Sunday, 13-Jul-14 17:23:13 UTC from web
    4. scoot scoot

      @c The rest of the reply was fact

      Sunday, 13-Jul-14 17:24:39 UTC from web
    5. scoot scoot

      @c Your response has lowered my opinion of you as a person drastically.

      Sunday, 13-Jul-14 17:26:34 UTC from web
    6. scoot scoot

      @c Every single word.

      Sunday, 13-Jul-14 17:27:34 UTC from web
    7. scoot scoot

      @c No.

      Sunday, 13-Jul-14 17:28:48 UTC from web
    8. Scribus Scribus

      @c I'm sure someone, somewhere does.

      Sunday, 13-Jul-14 17:29:05 UTC from web
    9. scoot scoot

      @c I am defending them because they don't need to provide "Value" to be allowed to think of themselves what they want. They don't need to prove themselves to you as people. You look like a complete asshole.

      Sunday, 13-Jul-14 17:31:03 UTC from web
    10. scoot scoot

      @c This clarification has changed nothing as I knew what you meant anyway, my main point was the final sentence.

      Sunday, 13-Jul-14 17:33:37 UTC from web
    11. scoot scoot

      @c No. This is not the case you presented to me, "This is depressing, they need to explain themselves to me before I bother to accept this". Just accept that this is how some people feel and move on.

      Sunday, 13-Jul-14 17:35:30 UTC from web
    12. scoot scoot

      @c Because that is how they are. Accept it and move on.

      Sunday, 13-Jul-14 17:36:51 UTC from web
    13. scoot scoot

      @c How am I supposed to explain someone's feelings to you, it's like "explain exactly how you feel about this person" or "explain what it feels like to hate RDN with the infinite searing passion of a thousand angry suns", our language cannot truly encapsulate feelings and emotions so your best bet is just to say "OK that is how they are" and leave them to it without an explanation.

      Sunday, 13-Jul-14 17:41:00 UTC from web
    14. loveydoe loveydoe

      @c While I don't want to feed the embers still here, I propose thinking about it as one thinks about comfort. Femininity and masculinity contrast starkly in some ways, and some people feel more comfortable with both traits found in a gender they weren't born into as well as the traits society has imposed on them since birth. As an analogy, I have a hard time with sports, and I would hope no one forces me to practice basketball once a week. For me, shooting hoops would be less valuable than doing something else, but a sporty person might have trouble seeing that value for himself, if, from his perspective, there is no value in not playing basketball. You may not see the value genderfluidity because it isn't valuable for you. :-)

      Sunday, 13-Jul-14 18:05:30 UTC from web
    15. loveydoe loveydoe

      @c I've subscribed to you now.

      Sunday, 13-Jul-14 18:43:35 UTC from web