Michael (egnaroesroh)'s status on Wednesday, 19-Oct-11 12:19:18 UTC
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@citrusrain I can't say I've been in a relationship, but as far as I can tell you have the choice of not pushing anything on her (If you want to stay with her. Which it seems you do) and not try forcing her to choose between her family and you. If you let her know you support her helping her sister, maybe she'll fell more at ease to talk about other things and not be so quick to jump to conclusions. It wouldn't really be right to blame her for caring about her family or for her sister getting sick. That being said, you also have the option of deciding this isn't what you want and ending things. This isn't something you should decide quickly or easily however, and especially when you seem angry and may be more susceptible to making a unwanted or bad decision. Just calm down and once you have a clear head, think about what you're willing to do for her and whether you're willing to wait.
