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Sunday, 08-Apr-12 06:06:08 UTC from web
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well.. hmm.. I don't know whetther to talk about it here or not. Right now I still have a plan of action so I don't really feel entirely trapped, but sometimes my marriage is hellish
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@pony There's always divorce!
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@nerthos That's mean. xD
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@minti Why? If the marriage is bad, the solution is divorce, that's why it exists xD
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@pony Give her a year, then divorce. Don't ruin your life waiting. Unless you're questing for immortality, you don't have time to waste.
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@pony Mmm. I'm seriously curious about what's wrong now. :/
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@pony It's no fun if you first have to die xD
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@pony Haha, one would hope. xD
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@minti I just had a long chat with my wife about things. it went better than usual, but throughout and afterward she still felt the need to say some terrible things that I can't help but feel were intentionally meant to hurt.
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@pony no, not at all, sometimes i think there is a velociraptor in my closet with a knife in its claw that wants to kill me
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@nerthos I'm also working on the whole zen thing.. balancing the negative energy in my life with positive. We'll see how it goes. It's still possible we'll divorce, but I'm in no hurry yet
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@pony Ehh. I've been in that situation before, it sucks. All you can really do is pick yourself back up, and maybe examine what they said to see if there's any truth in it (usually not xD).
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@midnightoil Best of luck with that! maybe cuddling a pony would help? http://ur1.ca/8ygrs
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@minti yeah. I feel very supported right now though. I think I'll be fine as long as we can ignore each other the rest of tonight and maybe tomorrow.
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@pony Have you tried counselling? As a couple or alone? Though, I'd lean towards as a couple.
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@pony Boy, that's an. . . unpleasant sign. :( Guess you've probably asked why she won't go on with it?
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@pony Well you've got my support. :p And probably everypony else's here.
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@scribus she feels it doesn't help, that nothing changes. I think she'll yield if I ask her again later.
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@minti Thank you! I really appreciate that :.)
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@pony Well, however it goes, hope it ends well. For you both, as individuals if not as a couple.
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@scribus divorce is always lose-lose, but it may mean the difference between loss and absolute devastation so yeah.. In any case I believe in her and in my supports
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@pony Yeah, it may be lose-lose, but sometimes it's better to lose with a chance to try again instead of finding out you've lost when it's way too late to have a second shot. (Hope that made sense)
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@scribus I get what you mean yeah. I wouldn't quit for a second shot though. I'd quit because the situation is hopeless otherwise. I still feel hope though. I'll be consulting with my ecclesiastical leader. Its helping to talk about it here as well. Thnak you.
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