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The reason for crossdressing is not homosexuality or gender confusion, as many believe. No, it is, in fact, due to women's clothes being made of softer fabrics, thus forcing the men with more sensitive skins to crossdress for survival. The oly way to fix this, is to craft men's clothes of softer fabrics. #professornerthosexplains
Monday, 16-Apr-12 10:53:00 UTC from web-
@nerthos You are ridiculous but I found this amusing.
Monday, 16-Apr-12 10:54:41 UTC from web-
@thelastgherkin I'm a qualified professor of the fashion science. I know what I'm talking about.
Monday, 16-Apr-12 10:55:44 UTC from web
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@nerthos I disagree. It is fun to play a different social role.
Monday, 16-Apr-12 10:57:34 UTC from web-
@hakupony I have touched many a set of underwear through extensive studies in the matter to be able to prove this fact.
Monday, 16-Apr-12 10:58:40 UTC from web-
@nerthos So you know that womens underwear is softer. What mkes you believe this is the reason for crossdressing?
Monday, 16-Apr-12 11:00:30 UTC from web-
@hakupony Simple. The glorious feeling of soft fabric aganist sensitive skin.
Monday, 16-Apr-12 11:01:14 UTC from web
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@nerthos I've talked to stallions with different reasons.. My own desire derives from wishing to be beautiful, to be accepted for who I am and not my conformity to who others want me to be, and my personal identification with female sensitivity. :)
Monday, 16-Apr-12 10:58:29 UTC from web-
@pony But why it is that you feel beautiful whilst wearing clothes designed for women? It is, my friend, due to that silken feeling of softer fabric aganist your skin.
Monday, 16-Apr-12 11:00:41 UTC from web-
@nerthos I have to admit, The softer feel is certainly enjoyable, not to mention the breeziness.
Monday, 16-Apr-12 11:04:27 UTC from web-
@pony See? My dissertation proved successful and useful.
Monday, 16-Apr-12 11:08:44 UTC from web-
Monday, 16-Apr-12 11:10:42 UTC from web
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@pony :D
Monday, 16-Apr-12 11:11:31 UTC from web
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@pony Fun thing: The most close word in Spanish for "breeziness" is "chiflete", a really funny word, not to mention it's usually used to describe a gale climbing between the legs and freezing the crotch.
Monday, 16-Apr-12 11:10:35 UTC from web
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@pony Do you consider yourself female, male or something between? Just curious.
Monday, 16-Apr-12 11:01:31 UTC from web-
@hakupony Normally I consider myself all male. Even while crossdressing I'm still confortable and happy with my male body and heterosexuality, but I detach myself from society's concept of what 'male' is, so you might say I'm something in-between. It depends ultimately on how you define male.
Monday, 16-Apr-12 11:07:55 UTC from web-
@pony Cool. It takes guts to get distance on what everyone believe is right.
Monday, 16-Apr-12 11:09:05 UTC from web-
@hakupony I'll never crossdress again sadly. All I can do is fantasize. Or better yet maybe I can find somepony to dress up and live vicariously through him.
Monday, 16-Apr-12 11:12:23 UTC from web-
@pony what does stop you?
Monday, 16-Apr-12 11:14:09 UTC from web-
@hakupony My wife feels it's immoral for me to crossdress and I respect her wish for me not to. I don't think I'll ever convince her otherwise. The sadder part for me is in her misconception rather than my abstinence from crossdressing. In many ways she and I are very different.
Monday, 16-Apr-12 11:24:20 UTC from web-
@pony I never looked on it from a morality perspective.
Monday, 16-Apr-12 11:25:45 UTC from web-
@hakupony @ceruleanspark I think she sees it as a form of immodesty or unduely attracting attention to myself in a sexual way. That can't be her only reason since she refuses to give me the go-ahead to dress up in the privacy of our home. She has difficulty articulating why exactly, but I think she also feels I'd be acting out some deviant fantasy desiring to be who I'm not, which, in itself, would be wrong. Even if she could trust me enough to realize that's not why I want to, and even if I only ever crossdressed in complete privacy, she sadly seems to resist the notion of self-exploration and self-honesty when it comes to this sort of thing. There are parts of me that I actively and willingly choose never to indulge because I feel to do so would hurt me or others, but I don't feel crossdressing would fall into such a category personally.
Monday, 16-Apr-12 11:47:00 UTC from web-
@pony The only thing I can think of that would justify my complete abstinence from crossdressing is to "avoid the appearance of evil" in the off chance my hobby were discovered somehow. This is a concept my faith promotes, but only expects of its leaders, not its everyday members like myself. In short, I disagree with my wife on this.
Monday, 16-Apr-12 11:47:10 UTC from web-
@pony You know, it's your wife. She can give you counsel on things, but not actively order you to do or not do something.
Monday, 16-Apr-12 11:52:53 UTC from web-
@nerthos that's true. I've considered telling her I'll be crossdressing in private, but I don't know what her reaction would be, especially since, in the middle of seeing her cry about it, I already told her I wouldn't. Of course I could tell her I've changed my mind, but I don't think that would help much really. It was so much easier when I simply did truly immoral things, mostly aware of what I was doing and the consequences, and hid them until I could later apologize. hmm..
Monday, 16-Apr-12 12:02:05 UTC from web-
@pony Well, you seem to have many conflicts with your wife. You need to make clear that neither of you own the other one, and the only thing one part can do to the other is advicing. Marriage is supposed to be a form of companionship, not a slaving relationship.
Monday, 16-Apr-12 12:04:31 UTC from web-
@nerthos You words sound good. I want to be persuaded to indulge, but I keep thinking I'd be doing it for ultimately selfish reasons. *sigh* I don't know what I'll do
Monday, 16-Apr-12 12:14:48 UTC from web-
@pony You need to diferentiate "selfish" from "wrong". You can't be completely altruist, it'll destroy you.
Monday, 16-Apr-12 12:16:23 UTC from web-
@nerthos there's nothing wrong with self-aggrandizement, which I feel is what crossdressing would essentially be for me, but at what cost? I feel stuck between a rock and a hard spot with this.
Monday, 16-Apr-12 12:23:20 UTC from web-
@pony At what cost? The cost is changing your marriage from a psychological jail to an actual relationship, or if she cares too little for you to let go her stubborness, helping yourself avoid eventual depression and health issues by getting rid of it.
Monday, 16-Apr-12 12:26:11 UTC from web
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@pony How is dressing in womens clothing a moral issue?
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