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rarity
@conventrix what is normal anyways?
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cavatina
@conventrix You are on a brony social network, no one here is close to normal =P
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@conventrix No-one is normal.
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flaredancer
@conventrix Bah. Normal's no fun
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flaredancer
@conventrix \o/
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flaredancer
@conventrix I'm pan, m'self. I tend to date men more, though, because males (at least around here) seems to have the personality types I favor.
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rarity
@conventrix a-HA! So your true sexuality comes forth!
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flaredancer
@conventrix I seem to attract very feminine men. My last two boyfriends made me feel really guilty for having my own goals in life. Not that those two thoughts are necessarily related in every case.
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flaredancer
@conventrix I had a sensitive boyfriend once who still managed to bully me. He was quite emotionally abusive and I think I'm still a little messed up thanks to him.
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yodelerty
@conventrix We must savour this moment: the moment you showed your true sexuality after being all mysterious. >_>
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flaredancer
@conventrix I've always had emotional and self esteem problems, and it wasn't until a few years after the relationship that I realized he was abusive. He used to remind me monthly that if I ever got pregnant he had ways of making me have an abortion.
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rarity
@flaredancer Are you serious? That is horrible. Shame on him.
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flaredancer
@rarity Yeah. He'd tell me he could always push me down a flight of stairs, or, failing that, he's got a closet full of wire coat hangers. He's a Sheriff's Deputy now.
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rarity
@flaredancer ..How do people like that live with themselves? Who is he to act like that? Who is /anybody/ to act like that?
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flaredancer
@rarity I really haven't a clue. He stalked me after I ended the relationship, too. Well… he sort of ended the relationship, actually. He told me I had to choose between him or my family.
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rarity
@flaredancer Is he gone now?
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flaredancer
@rarity He's not in my life anymore. This was… um… 7 years ago. We were together for almost a year, though.
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rarity
@flaredancer I'm just happy for you that it's done.
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flaredancer
@rarity Yeah, me, too. I wish I had got the restraining order, though, cos I doubt he'd be a cop now if I had. He stopped stalking me when my Dad threatened him with one.
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rarity
@flaredancer is it too late to get one, or do you not want to open that can of worms again?
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flaredancer
@rarity I don't want to bother with it. I haven't seen nor heard from him in 6 years. I'm at a point where I've actually forgiven him emotionally, but I want nothing whatsoever to do with him.
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rarity
@flaredancer okay.
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flaredancer
@rarity I'm still a little worried that one day he'll pull me over for speeding or something, but I don't actually know what area he's a cop in. I know you can't be a cop too close to where you live. I live in the city proper, though, whereas he polices the county, so I don't know if I'll run into him
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rarity
@flaredancer I hope that doesn't happen.
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flaredancer
@rarity Yeah, me, too. Though, I might have a good way to get out of the ticket
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pawnheart
@flaredancer It's a very low likelihood... sadly, though, there's no way of guaranteeing it not happening. Who knows... maybe time has given him some perspective on his behaviour, anyway.
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flaredancer
@pawnheart /shrugs I joke about it, but I doubt I'd even try to use that to get out of the ticket unless I knew for a fact I didn't do anything wrong. And then it'd be a last resort.
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pawnheart
@flaredancer In sensible actuality... it would probably be just a police man pulling someone over for an infingement of the law. If not... then he would be pitiable.
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flaredancer
@pawnheart I'm not expecting it to happen, though, part of that is because I don't think he knows what my car looks like, but I wouldn't be surprised if It did.
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pawnheart
@flaredancer Not to expect it is probably the best you can do... there are many more unpleasant things that are probably considerably more likely to happen to us in any given day!
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pawnheart
@flaredancer *by 'more unpleasant', I meant 'other unpleasant things', not things that are necessarily 'more unpleasant' than that. (ahem). Excuse me.
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flaredancer
@pawnheart I understand. But, there are things that are more unpleasant that are also more likely to happen. I think running into the guy I almost married would be one of those...
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pawnheart
@flaredancer Yeah... it just ain't all that likely, is all I was saying in a very roundabout way! I nearly get hit by a car once a week, on average... it is statistically the most likely way I will die. But beyond scolding myself/the other driver for half a minute after the event... other than that, I don't worry about it that much! ...huh... Please forgive me, that was about the worst analogy in the history of typing!
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flaredancer
@pawnheart hehe It happens. And, yeah, I know how drivers can be... People in So Cal tend to be pretty horrible at it.
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pawnheart
@flaredancer To be honest... it's probably largely due to my head-in-the-clouds-listening-to-saxophone-squawking tendencies! Anyway... may statistics be on your side, and such an occurence never happen.
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flaredancer
@pawnheart Here's hoping! And here's hoping you don't get runned over
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pawnheart
@flaredancer Yay! Thanks!
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flaredancer
@pawnheart Not a problem! =^.^=
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pawnheart
@flaredancer I strongly feel you dodged a bullet with this one... can't have been at all easy though.
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flaredancer
@pawnheart Oh, no. The only thing that saved my life is how close my family is. If it weren't for them I don't know where I'd be.
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pawnheart
@flaredancer That's a relief... and one that would seem to fully validate your decision.
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flaredancer
@pawnheart Yeah. My family is fan-freakin'-tastic
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ceruleanspark
@flaredancer Your brother is a pretty cool guy.
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@ceruleanspark :3 @scribus is best brother <3 #BBBFF
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yodelerty
@conventrix I don't. XD I'll just have to replace you as the mysterious guy because I'm almost sure I never told anyone my sexuality unless I did in which case oh well. XD
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ceruleanspark
@yodelerty You like Hamsters.
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yodelerty
@ceruleanspark How did you guess are you a wizard.
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ceruleanspark
@yodelerty I am a whale biologist.
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yodelerty
@ceruleanspark I must be really tired because I laughed way too hard at that.
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yodelerty
@conventrix First dance for me.
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flaredancer
@conventrix Yeah… I really should have listened to my family and friends when they told me it was a bad idea and they didn't like him. But, I was 17 and in love… blech.
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yodelerty
@conventrix You must dance.
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flaredancer
@conventrix I think some of it might have to do with how kids are raised. I remember being told as a kid that if a boy picked on you it just means he likes you. As an adult, that seems like a really messed up thing to tell little girls.
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yodelerty
@conventrix Good... I already forgot why I made you do that. XD
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