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Reposting because... I seriously don't know what to do: I've been led on - and the girl-in-question apparently led herself on as well - and have had the first "relationship" I've had in seven years just dissolve. I still have feelings for her, and this will not change at all. Where do I go from here?
Monday, 11-Mar-13 01:52:46 UTC from web-
@chiefanchor as i said, ask @pony about it, he seems to lnow a lot about this, but you'd have to wait untill he sees your message. I seriously dont know ANYTHING ABOUT THIS SUBJECT
Monday, 11-Mar-13 01:53:55 UTC from web-
@mushi You could've ignored the repost, you know... I'm asking anyone for their advice here, because this territory is so foreign to me that I legitimately do not know what to do at all/.
Monday, 11-Mar-13 01:56:05 UTC from web-
@chiefanchor just telling you my reason to not try to help you
Monday, 11-Mar-13 01:57:12 UTC from web
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@chiefanchor That's a difficult question to answer. I myself have never had a serious relationship. Sure, there have been small things I've had with a girl, but it's never been something that's made me... well, truely happy. I might get a lot of flak and shrapnel for this, but have you considered something like eHarmony? I mean, it works for a lot of people, so it's worth a shot?
Monday, 11-Mar-13 01:55:54 UTC from web-
@zeldatra Yeah, you'll get flak and shrapnel for that. I put no stock in anything besides actually getting to know someone in-person.
Monday, 11-Mar-13 01:56:55 UTC from web
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@chiefanchor Well, it's simple, you love her, then you have to confront her in a moment and set of conditions shaped by you to your advantage. With that I mean, ask her out, but not anywhere and anytime, but in a moment when she'll feel compelled to say yes.
Monday, 11-Mar-13 01:57:37 UTC from web-
Monday, 11-Mar-13 01:58:09 UTC from web
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@zeldatra It's not more rapey than paying all the staff of a restaurant and a band to make everything romantic for you to propose marriage.
Monday, 11-Mar-13 01:59:22 UTC from web
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@nerthos If it were that simple, I'd have done it. And the last damned thing I want to do is potentially alienate her.
Monday, 11-Mar-13 02:01:16 UTC from web-
@chiefanchor Do you truly love this girl?
Monday, 11-Mar-13 02:01:59 UTC from web-
@zeldatra Yes, I do, but NOT at the risk of pushing her away.
Monday, 11-Mar-13 02:02:24 UTC from web-
@chiefanchor Understandable. Well, I don't know what to tell you, other than if it isn't working it isn't working.
Monday, 11-Mar-13 02:03:53 UTC from web -
@chiefanchor sorry if i sounded harsh to you, by the way....
Monday, 11-Mar-13 02:11:41 UTC from web-
@mushi It's okay, it's just that I'm at such an awkward crossroads that I don't even want to take a step in any direction for fear of misstepping.
Monday, 11-Mar-13 02:14:03 UTC from web-
@chiefanchor ok, i didnt use my best words anyway, But good luck with that
Monday, 11-Mar-13 02:16:45 UTC from web
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@chiefanchor Well I tend to deal with those situations by psychological manipulation, and a handcrafted enviorment is the simplest way to do it.
Monday, 11-Mar-13 02:02:13 UTC from web
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@nutymcnuty that is from the comic. Her face is like this because Chrysalis is watching her from a crystal ball thing
Monday, 11-Mar-13 01:57:48 UTC from web
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