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all I want is cute furry boys in hoodies
Monday, 29-Dec-14 02:10:14 UTC from web-
Monday, 29-Dec-14 02:11:16 UTC from web
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@northernnarwhal thanks, but my priorities are about as straight as my sexuality :^)
Monday, 29-Dec-14 02:13:52 UTC from web-
Monday, 29-Dec-14 02:19:31 UTC from web
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@northernnarwhal c:
Monday, 29-Dec-14 02:24:06 UTC from web-
Monday, 29-Dec-14 02:29:27 UTC from web
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@northernnarwhal Not one to call my own, so to speak. There are some notable good friends, though i feel I am not as close with them as I would like to be. I have been thinking about it quite a bit recently, and I would be lying if I said I wasn't desperate...
Monday, 29-Dec-14 02:36:08 UTC from web-
@ellistia I can understand that, I usually either feel like I'm not close enough to people or are too shy to say anything to them. Love is really weird sometimes, eh?
Monday, 29-Dec-14 02:41:11 UTC from web-
@northernnarwhal Yeah, I'm pretty much always too shy to say what I feel. Frustrating and saddening.
Monday, 29-Dec-14 02:46:34 UTC from web-
@ellistia Usually whenever I find myself really liking someone I get really flustered and just completely lose track of everything I'm gonna say. I mean being in love is a great feeling but it's also awful when you don't know how to express it :(
Monday, 29-Dec-14 02:54:29 UTC from web-
@northernnarwhal I feel that. Though typically I don't even get as far as thinking about saying anything because of something else that makes it seem pointless (usually them already being in a relationship).
Monday, 29-Dec-14 03:00:16 UTC from web-
@ellistia Yeah, sometimes if I like them enough I'll try and be subtle about asking them but that usually backfires or doesn't yield definitive answers. Or even if I know usually it's weird to transition into asking them out. Last time I had a significant other I just walked up to them and said "Hey wanna go out with me?" and admittedly it worked but I can't see that working with anyone else.
Monday, 29-Dec-14 03:09:28 UTC from web-
@northernnarwhal If some form of friendship has already been established and they feel the same way at that time, I don't see why that shouldn't work. Hell I know there's a good few people that I would be ok with being that blunt with me (after getting past the surprise that they would even ask me that at all). If they don't feel the same way, well it's not likely to make a difference no matter how long it's dragged out; it just leaves you more time to wonder and sets up for greater disappointment, I'd imagine.
Monday, 29-Dec-14 03:41:30 UTC from web-
@ellistia Yeah, I have pretty lousy self image and usually just assume I'm a bother to even talk to or hang out with, let alone date. I don't think I've ever had someone be blunt with me before. Actually, the last time someone asked me out they didn't even ask me out. We were just hanging out and they saw one their friends who said to them "oh, you have a cute boyfriend" and afterwards I was like "I'm your boyfriend?" and they just said "oh yeah sure".
Monday, 29-Dec-14 03:54:48 UTC from web-
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Monday, 29-Dec-14 04:00:02 UTC from web
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@northernnarwhal That sounds rather cute
Monday, 29-Dec-14 04:01:20 UTC from web-
@ellistia Yeah, that relationship was fun while it lasted. I guess a lot of weird and cute things come my way, but I seem to have a hard time really getting close to people.
Monday, 29-Dec-14 04:14:20 UTC from web-
@northernnarwhal Mm. It's a shame, a lot of the most likeable people seem to have these troubles.
Monday, 29-Dec-14 04:19:03 UTC from web-
Monday, 29-Dec-14 04:20:59 UTC from web
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@northernnarwhal Aww, I wouldn't be so sure of that.
Monday, 29-Dec-14 04:23:10 UTC from web-
Monday, 29-Dec-14 04:24:06 UTC from web
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@northernnarwhal I like to think of myself as open-minded. The way I see it, the line between 'like' and 'love' is a much greater cause for concern than it ought to be. Even if you only think of someone as a friend, there's nothing really stopping any relationship from developing into a greater affection for one another.
Monday, 29-Dec-14 04:30:07 UTC from web-
Monday, 29-Dec-14 04:30:59 UTC from web
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@northernnarwhal For the most part, yeah. But in the same way, I also personally believe it's possible for it to become non-platonic, should it fit the desires of both parties of course.
Monday, 29-Dec-14 04:36:31 UTC from web-
@ellistia Yeah, then the next problem becomes reading the signs. I'm usually not good with being subtle or with reading subtly, though sometimes I don't see things right in front of me either :p
Monday, 29-Dec-14 04:41:26 UTC from web-
@northernnarwhal Heh, that beats me too. As far as I can remember I
Monday, 29-Dec-14 04:51:54 UTC from web-
@ellistia 've never had any signs to read. Either that or I have been completely missing them.
Monday, 29-Dec-14 04:52:53 UTC from web-
@ellistia In my experience, a lot of the time the signs are there they're just really hard to pick up on.
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@ellistia Yeah, I'm usually a lot better being blunt with people. Usually when I'm subtle I'm too subtle or just blunt.
Monday, 29-Dec-14 04:58:44 UTC from web-
@northernnarwhal You're real nice to talk to man
Monday, 29-Dec-14 05:06:29 UTC from web-
@ellistia Thanks, considering I have a lot of self doubts about myself I really appreciate that :) You're great too.
Monday, 29-Dec-14 05:07:52 UTC from web-
@northernnarwhal Thank you. I'm really not one to get into long conversations but sometimes there's just that appeal that makes you wanna keep talking.
Monday, 29-Dec-14 05:11:26 UTC from web-
@ellistia Usually I love to talk to people but I end up being either too shy to instigate and continue or run out of things to say. I like you though, you get me. Lots of people here get me, and that's really special.
Monday, 29-Dec-14 05:17:23 UTC from web
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Monday, 29-Dec-14 04:02:14 UTC from web-
Monday, 29-Dec-14 04:14:31 UTC from web
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@northernnarwhal That is my favorite!
Monday, 29-Dec-14 04:18:13 UTC from web
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@northernnarwhal I've been blunt with you many times. Also I actually think you're pretty cute, which I've mentioned before.
Monday, 29-Dec-14 04:12:29 UTC from web-
@clayinthecarpet Thanks
Monday, 29-Dec-14 04:15:29 UTC from web-
@northernnarwhal I still have those pictures of you saved. XD
Monday, 29-Dec-14 04:16:05 UTC from web-
@clayinthecarpet I don't know how I should feel about this
Monday, 29-Dec-14 04:16:34 UTC from web-
@northernnarwhal Not very special, honestly. I save pics of all my friends because I like to know who I'm talking to. Not being willing to share pics of yourself strikes me as odd and scary.
Monday, 29-Dec-14 04:17:26 UTC from web-
@clayinthecarpet I think it's fine to not want to share pics of yourself. You could be uncomfortable with showing people yourself, or you could be very young in which posting pictures of yourself online could be dangerous. I think it's perfectly normal not to want to share pics.
Monday, 29-Dec-14 04:19:14 UTC from web-
@northernnarwhal I hate the idea that people are lying and posing to be something else than what they actually are. Once you meet at least one crazy internet guy, you kinda sorta fear that happening again.
Monday, 29-Dec-14 04:22:21 UTC from web-
@clayinthecarpet I'm just gonna say I disagree and not pursue this.
Monday, 29-Dec-14 04:22:57 UTC from web
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Monday, 29-Dec-14 02:11:51 UTC from web
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