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  1. chiefanchor chiefanchor

    Well, I got some sleep, but that doesn't seem to have helped. I woke up feeling about as bad as I felt last night.

    Monday, 11-Mar-13 12:17:02 UTC from web
    1. Solidus Sans Solidus Sans

      @chiefanchor I woke up like that yesterday. It made my day pretty bad.

      Monday, 11-Mar-13 12:18:14 UTC from StatusNet iPhone
      1. chiefanchor chiefanchor

        @yodelerty i don't know, though. I know how I feel, and I came to terms with that a bit, but I was seriously infuriated by some of the "advice" I was given. Manipulate someone into loving me? Do something that can be considered a crime, and will no doubt isolate me from mst of my friends? Ugh...

        Monday, 11-Mar-13 12:21:03 UTC from web
        1. Solidus Sans Solidus Sans

          @chiefanchor That's definitely not the way to go about it so I don't know what crazy type of person was giving you advice.

          Monday, 11-Mar-13 12:22:37 UTC from StatusNet iPhone
    2. Cerulean Lulamoon-Spark Cerulean Lulamoon-Spark

      @chiefanchor If this was a sitcom, the solution would be a sequence of increasingly overblown romantic gestures until she suddenly decides that actually she does have feelings for you after all. Then the indie love ballad swells up as we cut to a montage. But that's not how real life works, a lot of people will say cut your losses, move on, accept that it's not happening. Maybe. Mabye not. Right now you're obviously hurting badly, and you feel like you need to internalise an answer right now for the sake of closure, but I'd say try something different: Do nothing. Come to terms with your hurt, but don't close it off. Put some distance between you and the pain before you decide where you want to go.

      Monday, 11-Mar-13 12:30:11 UTC from StatusNet Desktop
      1. chiefanchor chiefanchor

        @ceruleanspark Thanks for the thought-out answer. I'm already trying to figure this out, but it's not easy to come to terms with this.

        Monday, 11-Mar-13 12:54:40 UTC from web
        1. Cerulean Lulamoon-Spark Cerulean Lulamoon-Spark

          @chiefanchor It's not easy to come to terms with because emotions generally do not follow logical thought, but if you wanna talk to someone until such a point you've worked it through in your own mind, you can DM me even without being subscribed to me.

          Monday, 11-Mar-13 13:17:28 UTC from StatusNet Desktop
          1. chiefanchor chiefanchor

            @ceruleanspark Again, thanks. It's all very much appreciated.

            Monday, 11-Mar-13 13:39:55 UTC from web