Cerulean Lulamoon-Spark (ceruleansparkold)'s status on Monday, 11-Mar-13 12:30:11 UTC

  1. @chiefanchor If this was a sitcom, the solution would be a sequence of increasingly overblown romantic gestures until she suddenly decides that actually she does have feelings for you after all. Then the indie love ballad swells up as we cut to a montage. But that's not how real life works, a lot of people will say cut your losses, move on, accept that it's not happening. Maybe. Mabye not. Right now you're obviously hurting badly, and you feel like you need to internalise an answer right now for the sake of closure, but I'd say try something different: Do nothing. Come to terms with your hurt, but don't close it off. Put some distance between you and the pain before you decide where you want to go.

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