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  1. @sim @thatbrickster @rice It never works out. Whenever I'd talk with a girl I was interested in back when I was 17 and she was 16, and she was with her friends, I'd spend more time replying to their teasing and attempts at being witty either by themselves or using the girl I wanted to talk with in the first place as proxy than actually talking with her.
    And considering it's very rare that females would go anywhere in highschool without their pack of friends one on one conversations were restricted to online or asking her out somewhere.

    about 3 hours ago from shitposter.club
    • @rice @thatbrickster @sim @rye @shmibs Well, my emotional mess was unrelated to puberty and before 11 so by the time I hit puberty I was pretty used to juggling and soothing emotions. Would have probably ended up autistic if I didn't learn how to do it by 12. Ended up filtering emotional response through conscious reasoning to handle it which is not a very orthodox way to handle it and makes it hard to have strong feelings about things but it's really good at keeping a cool head under stress and certainly better than being completely unable to handle it.
      Also related to why I tend to prefer girls that have a hard time masking their emotions, since it's hard enough for me to get a strong emotional response to stuff it's refreshing to see someone who gets excited over little things.

      about 3 hours ago from shitposter.club
      • @rye nou

        about 3 hours ago from shitposter.club
        • @thatbrickster @sim @rice I'd hang out with older people as a kid and teenager because it was very hard to mantain a proper conversation with people my age. As I got older that changed into talking with anyone who wants to chat since I was no longer limited to meatspace so the likelihood of meeting young people who weren't idiots increased a lot.

          about 3 hours ago from shitposter.club
          • @rice @thatbrickster @sim @rye @shmibs "Egads, snails in my panties again!"

            about 3 hours ago from shitposter.club
            • @rice @thatbrickster @sim @rye @shmibs Guess I just had a particularly easy time figuring out my emotions then.

              about 3 hours ago from shitposter.club
              • @sim @thatbrickster @rye @rice @shmibs Oh, yeah, I'd hang out a lot with people other than me, but it was pretty clear to me what was admiration or feeling like I could learn something from them, or just someone being enjoyable to hang out with.
                Even without boners, heart rate and a lot of other things make it pretty clear when there is attraction and when there isn't.
                I assumed it'd be pretty easy for a girl to tell whether they're dry or not as fabric feels much different. I can definitely tell when my underwear is wet from sweat after working in summer.

                about 3 hours ago from shitposter.club
              • ツインテール

                about 3 hours ago from pawoo.net
              • @rice @thatbrickster @sim @rye @shmibs Seems to be a trend that females tend to like people who manage their emotions a lot and males like people who display them a lot, as far as attraction goes.

                about 3 hours ago from shitposter.club
                • @dolus Goes from cute ball of fluff to advanced alien species

                  about 3 hours ago from shitposter.club
                  • Let's try again: List of current giveaways:
                    https://store.steampowered.com/app/202200/Galactic_Civilizations_II_Ultimate_Edition/ 
                    https://www.gog.com/game/sunrider_mask_of_arcadius 
                    https://store.steampowered.com/app/436180/

                    about 5 hours ago from shitposter.club
                  • @sim @thatbrickster @rice The issue is that most people can't seem to stay quiet about who they like. I never had the issue of others trying to push me into relationships because I just didn't tell them, and if I did it'd be directly to the girl I liked.
                    Then again it IS a mess considering girls are pack creatures and as a general rule you do not approach your crush when surrounded by their friends.

                    about 3 hours ago from shitposter.club
                    • @sim @thatbrickster @rye @rice @shmibs It's a crush if you get wet/a boner, admiration if you just think they're cool.

                      about 3 hours ago from shitposter.club
                      • @eal so close yet so far;;;;;;

                        about 3 hours ago from shitposter.club
                        • @rye thx u2!!

                          about 3 hours ago from shitposter.club
                          • @skoll3 Basically the F2P part is a demo and you need the DLC if you want to continue the campaigns, which is a big part of its negative reviews. But hey, it's free now.

                            about 3 hours ago from shitposter.club
                            • @karen @nether Good catch

                              about 3 hours ago from shitposter.club
                              • @hj @sim @rye @eal Finnish bodies work different. They need a high alcohol in blood % so it can't freeze.

                                about 3 hours ago from shitposter.club
                                • @sim @thatbrickster @rice Oh, that's one of the biggest issues. The retarded concept of peer pressure and trying to show off.

                                  about 3 hours ago from shitposter.club
                                  • @thatbrickster @sim @rye @rice @shmibs Gangsta rap and huge kiwis, or just the looks?
                                    The only teacher I had in secondary school that I found cute I also kept fighting with because she wasn't exactly great at her assignment (language and literature) and it annoyed me to be taught and graded by a language teacher that was worse than me at writing. Funnily enough I started getting along better with her years after.

                                    about 3 hours ago from shitposter.club
                                    • @skoll3 The DLC campaigns aren't though, but they're free to grab now.

                                      about 3 hours ago from shitposter.club
                                      • @eal don't worry I'm contained all evening;;;;

                                        about 3 hours ago from shitposter.club
                                        • @sim @rye @rice @shmibs There's a lot of that too. Teenagers of both genders will often get crushes on much older people because of either looks or considering their age peers to be annoyingly childlike.

                                          about 4 hours ago from shitposter.club
                                          • @rice @sim @rye @shmibs Need to start somewhere if I want people to be less applety

                                            about 4 hours ago from shitposter.club
                                            • @rice @thatbrickster @sim Not with the current trend of sex positivity. Don't worry though, once decadence gets bad enough it'll bounce back to puritanism like it did multiple times over the last few centuries.

                                              about 4 hours ago from shitposter.club
                                              • @rice @sim @rye Well, glad for them if it worked out.

                                                about 4 hours ago from shitposter.club
                                                • @rice @sim @rye @shmibs Well thanks lol. Then again I'd be a disaster if I didn't grasp that considering I'm getting my provisional license as a teacher this year and I'll probably have to explain some of this stuff to teenagers haha

                                                  about 4 hours ago from shitposter.club
                                                  • @sim @thatbrickster @rice Totally agree, however I'm of the mindset that restraint should be enforced culturally and not through arbitrary age barriers. Seeing sex as part of couple life and not as a goal by itself.

                                                    about 4 hours ago from shitposter.club
                                                    • @rice @sim @rye I was asking whether the guys were interested in sex or a relationship, as I don't think many would be able to stand a relationship of more than a few months under those conditions, not about the legality.

                                                      about 4 hours ago from shitposter.club
                                                      • @rice @sim @rye @shmibs Oh, people do act more infantile now, but that's because they keep being told they're kids until 18 instead of being gradually given responsibilities, not because of the age itself. It's as valid as drilling a hole in your car's gas tank then complaining it leaks.
                                                        In my case I both enjoyed doing kiddish stuff for fun and was perfectly capable of reasonable decision making. Still kinda holds at 25. Could have grabbed liquor from the shelves at home at 10 if I wanted to but never felt the need. My parents also bothered to give me alcoholic drinks to try in small doses so I didn't feel the need to try the forbidden fruit at 18.
                                                        Most people have their sexual awakening at about 12 or 13, that's where you'll see all the thirsty ones that'd hit anything with a hole or bulge depending on gender.

                                                        about 4 hours ago from shitposter.club