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Well, is it hazing or hostility? Where does the line draw?
Sunday, 21-Sep-14 06:57:33 UTC from web-
@awlditzy Neither of them are good, to be honest.
Sunday, 21-Sep-14 06:57:59 UTC from web-
@redenchilada I suppose not... not like I want to have to tip-toe around people but I kind of agree with you... into that if I had faced some of that when I joined I'd have left more permanently (probably).
Sunday, 21-Sep-14 06:59:27 UTC from web-
Sunday, 21-Sep-14 06:59:47 UTC from web
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@awlditzy I totally get not wanting to walk on eggshells and freedom to discuss what you want etc, but when someone joins to a community full of inter-depreciating jokes and "ponies suck" on a pony site it's... offputting, to say the least. But I'm no more than a couch commentator on the community here at this point, so it's not worth getting upset about.
Sunday, 21-Sep-14 07:02:43 UTC from web-
@redenchilada I face worse than what is said here irl but it does irk me just a tiny bit with all the "le ponies suck" thing. Not enough to say anything until pressed, but, there you have it.
Sunday, 21-Sep-14 07:04:27 UTC from web-
Sunday, 21-Sep-14 07:05:01 UTC from web
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@metaltao That's when you have two options; play with facade or make them more uncomfortable about you.
Sunday, 21-Sep-14 07:06:12 UTC from web-
@awlditzy Or never know? Is that an option? I mean, what do you do with out of place hatred? It feels like running into a town for family and finding a bunch of Invaders in your town.
Sunday, 21-Sep-14 07:08:03 UTC from web-
@metaltao clam down man its the interent
Sunday, 21-Sep-14 07:08:50 UTC from web-
@rainbowlover Yup, but is it a natural law the way things are? I am talking. Isn't that part of the internet as well? I mean, I am just talking here. I hope. I do hope you understand, I just don't get to discuss this a lot with people. I don't mean no harm I am sorry... @northernnarwhal @Awlditzy
Sunday, 21-Sep-14 07:10:34 UTC from web-
@metaltao i dont understand your talkin sporadical
Sunday, 21-Sep-14 07:11:08 UTC from web-
@rainbowlover I do that. But it would be Sporadically.
Sunday, 21-Sep-14 07:11:40 UTC from web
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Sunday, 21-Sep-14 07:11:28 UTC from web
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Sunday, 21-Sep-14 07:11:43 UTC from web
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@northernnarwhal But I am? It is redundant... Is it my tone? Should I change that? AYE! I will try, I am not good with Diction.
Sunday, 21-Sep-14 07:12:55 UTC from web-
Sunday, 21-Sep-14 07:13:56 UTC from web
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@northernnarwhal EAT MY DICTION! But, seriously bro. I just want to go and run into this convo here! It is just something I haven't got to talk about yah know? The way it just, is hard to talk about. Like what it means to welcome. Can we try that bro?
Sunday, 21-Sep-14 07:16:24 UTC from web-
Sunday, 21-Sep-14 07:16:43 UTC from web
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@metaltao What it means to welcome http://dictionary.reference.com/browse/welcome
Sunday, 21-Sep-14 07:18:54 UTC from web-
@northernnarwhal Yes, indeed. Shall we talk about that and the ethics of a salutation?
Sunday, 21-Sep-14 07:19:35 UTC from web-
@metaltao Ethical Salutation: http://image.shutterstock.com/display_pic_with_logo/63054/63054,1195420667,4/stock-photo-humorous-young-guy-waving-with-blank-stare-isolated-on-white-vertical-7079296.jpg
Unethical Salutation: http://i.telegraph.co.uk/multimedia/archive/01504/salute_1504842c.jpgSunday, 21-Sep-14 07:23:42 UTC from web
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@northernnarwhal I thought welcoming was that thing I pay $5 per month to run a bot to do for us
Sunday, 21-Sep-14 07:19:37 UTC from web-
@redenchilada That too
Sunday, 21-Sep-14 07:24:12 UTC from web
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@northernnarwhal H ho ho?
Sunday, 21-Sep-14 07:19:43 UTC from web -
@northernnarwhal Also, I feel like you don't want me to talk about anything though. Is that true? Or am I reading this wrong? Sorry. But I feel like I should be asking this broseferino
Sunday, 21-Sep-14 07:21:31 UTC from web-
Sunday, 21-Sep-14 07:25:24 UTC from web
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@awlditzy Yeah, but I am indecisive. I sometimes like a clear answer. I am getting to real here. I should have left. I sound angry, but I am just devoid of emotion.
Sunday, 21-Sep-14 07:26:12 UTC from web-
Sunday, 21-Sep-14 07:28:56 UTC from web
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@awlditzy I don't follow? What do you mean? Am I preaching to deaf ears? If I am preaching. I am not sure. Is there something rude I am doing? Please tell me.
Sunday, 21-Sep-14 07:30:31 UTC from web-
@metaltao we all must learn to read the wrold ourselfs
Sunday, 21-Sep-14 07:31:10 UTC from web-
@rainbowlover True, but I was born without much of a capability to do that.
Sunday, 21-Sep-14 07:31:35 UTC from web-
@metaltao it isnt about born its about learn
Sunday, 21-Sep-14 07:32:15 UTC from web-
@rainbowlover Yes, I am sorry, it is about learning, but I don't know anyone who makes books on this stuff you know?
Sunday, 21-Sep-14 07:32:51 UTC from web-
@metaltao you lern threw life! you learn threw experence
Sunday, 21-Sep-14 07:33:41 UTC from web
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@metaltao constant replies to one post is going to make some people less willing to say anything in reply. It shows impatience, and lack of understanding to an extreme degree. Take deep breaths before typing. Relly.
Sunday, 21-Sep-14 07:31:59 UTC from web-
@awlditzy OH! I looked mean! OH! I didn't see that! I was being... kiwier... Damn perception... I should always learn... Bye...
Sunday, 21-Sep-14 07:33:29 UTC from web-
@metaltao dont leve in sham when you mess up, stay and make fix!
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Sunday, 21-Sep-14 07:35:15 UTC from web
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@metaltao u cant plz everyone, look toe plz the people u can
Sunday, 21-Sep-14 07:34:59 UTC from web
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Sunday, 21-Sep-14 07:34:48 UTC from web
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Sunday, 21-Sep-14 07:35:18 UTC from web
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@awlditzy I believe I can. I just need to be more aware. More understanding. I am just an idiot. ANd, now, I am getting people to talk about me. Which is not a good thing.
Sunday, 21-Sep-14 07:36:09 UTC from web-
@metaltao bascally be a man. dont care so much bout wat ppl think. you find then ppl like you more
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@metaltao No matter how much you prepare for something life's going to throw a curve ball at you. What makes us US is how we deal with it, and how we move on.
Sunday, 21-Sep-14 07:37:16 UTC from web-
@awlditzy @rainbowlover So, you guys get upset when I do leave like that?
Sunday, 21-Sep-14 07:39:15 UTC from web-
@metaltao idk im new here but leving when argue starts solvs nothin, just mak u look week and ppl walk ovr u
Sunday, 21-Sep-14 07:39:55 UTC from web-
@rainbowlover We were arguing?
Sunday, 21-Sep-14 07:40:11 UTC from web
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Sunday, 21-Sep-14 07:40:31 UTC from web
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I guess, I forgot where I was.
Sunday, 21-Sep-14 07:41:21 UTC from web-
@metaltao Basically, when you feel like you make a mistake or whatever, you shouldn't leave, you should talk it out to the end. It may be hard but in the end it'll be better for everyone.
Sunday, 21-Sep-14 07:42:09 UTC from web -
@metaltao Also, don't take this the wrong way, but you may want to apologize yet. You think you're being nice by doing it, but to a lot of people it just comes off as annoying and tedious.
Sunday, 21-Sep-14 07:43:35 UTC from web-
@fyf Aye... But, what do I do to show my, I guess. "Feel bad"? What is it called... It makes sense to be annoyed by that, it sounds like a broken record. But, I do feel bad. What do I do? I can't make anything, I can't fix it. I don't have that knowledge. Please, what do I do? It has kind of been imprinted into me. A coping mechanism if he will.
Sunday, 21-Sep-14 07:46:09 UTC from web-
Sunday, 21-Sep-14 07:47:29 UTC from web
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@metaltao That's the thing, it's not something I can really just explain, it's something you have to learn. The best way to learn is by just facing it, and not leaving when things go bad. That's how we learn.
Sunday, 21-Sep-14 07:49:14 UTC from web-
@fyf Aye, I always just thought of personal space when this happens, I over step other peoples comfort zones, and I have to leave. Bad habit I picked up from being a loner for a long time I guess. I feel like I should tell someone about my life, but that feels selfish, especially now.
Sunday, 21-Sep-14 07:52:20 UTC from web-
Sunday, 21-Sep-14 07:52:49 UTC from web
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@metaltao Okay, in response to something you said earlier, you aren't in denial about humility. If anything you're /too/ humble. You think it's selfish to talk to your friends about your life, but that's part of what being friends is about.
Sunday, 21-Sep-14 07:53:23 UTC from web-
Sunday, 21-Sep-14 07:55:31 UTC from web
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@metaltao Not necessarily. If you think talking about your life will help you, you should do it on your own terms. For example, if I decided at this exact moment, I can think of several people here who would be perfectly willing to hear it, and wouldn't think I'm being selfish.
Sunday, 21-Sep-14 07:57:41 UTC from web-
Sunday, 21-Sep-14 07:58:51 UTC from web
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@awlditzy The reason it isn't selfish is because they know I would do the same for them.
Sunday, 21-Sep-14 07:59:47 UTC from web
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Sunday, 21-Sep-14 07:59:45 UTC from web
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@metaltao I know. It's hard to grasp, but I believe in you.
Sunday, 21-Sep-14 08:05:42 UTC from web
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@metaltao Too much humility is a bad bad thing you know. It seems forced and further alienates.
Sunday, 21-Sep-14 07:54:05 UTC from web-
@awlditzy It's actually a flaw of mine sometimes. I let things slide that bother me because I don't want to be a burden. Then eventually they become major issues.
Sunday, 21-Sep-14 07:54:46 UTC from web-
@fyf Well, truely letting things slide isn't humility is it? Sure, keeping things back on purpose of not making waves... well no I wouldn't call that humility either, that's politeness or being contrite to a fault. I suppose, one can argue semantics on that.
Sunday, 21-Sep-14 07:56:36 UTC from web-
Sunday, 21-Sep-14 07:57:30 UTC from web
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@metaltao basically means feeling guilt or remorse
Sunday, 21-Sep-14 07:58:12 UTC from web
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@metaltao I've made enough stupid mistakes to know that stupid mistakes are part of life. We grow because of stupid mistakes.
Sunday, 21-Sep-14 07:36:15 UTC from web
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Sunday, 21-Sep-14 07:09:07 UTC from web
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@metaltao Simple. Find another place. Or bunker down and get used to it, and throw kiwi back.
Sunday, 21-Sep-14 07:09:49 UTC from web
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@awlditzy Is it same? Is there malice? Malice is bad. Guilt is bad mentally and physiologically.
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