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all I want is cute furry boys in hoodies
Monday, 29-Dec-14 02:10:14 UTC from web- Narwhal, MetalTao and Someone Probably like this.
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@northernnarwhal thanks, but my priorities are about as straight as my sexuality :^)
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@northernnarwhal Not one to call my own, so to speak. There are some notable good friends, though i feel I am not as close with them as I would like to be. I have been thinking about it quite a bit recently, and I would be lying if I said I wasn't desperate...
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@ellistia I can understand that, I usually either feel like I'm not close enough to people or are too shy to say anything to them. Love is really weird sometimes, eh?
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@northernnarwhal Yeah, I'm pretty much always too shy to say what I feel. Frustrating and saddening.
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@ellistia Usually whenever I find myself really liking someone I get really flustered and just completely lose track of everything I'm gonna say. I mean being in love is a great feeling but it's also awful when you don't know how to express it :(
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@northernnarwhal I feel that. Though typically I don't even get as far as thinking about saying anything because of something else that makes it seem pointless (usually them already being in a relationship).
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@ellistia Yeah, sometimes if I like them enough I'll try and be subtle about asking them but that usually backfires or doesn't yield definitive answers. Or even if I know usually it's weird to transition into asking them out. Last time I had a significant other I just walked up to them and said "Hey wanna go out with me?" and admittedly it worked but I can't see that working with anyone else.
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@northernnarwhal If some form of friendship has already been established and they feel the same way at that time, I don't see why that shouldn't work. Hell I know there's a good few people that I would be ok with being that blunt with me (after getting past the surprise that they would even ask me that at all). If they don't feel the same way, well it's not likely to make a difference no matter how long it's dragged out; it just leaves you more time to wonder and sets up for greater disappointment, I'd imagine.
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@ellistia Yeah, I have pretty lousy self image and usually just assume I'm a bother to even talk to or hang out with, let alone date. I don't think I've ever had someone be blunt with me before. Actually, the last time someone asked me out they didn't even ask me out. We were just hanging out and they saw one their friends who said to them "oh, you have a cute boyfriend" and afterwards I was like "I'm your boyfriend?" and they just said "oh yeah sure".
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@northernnarwhal That sounds rather cute
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@northernnarwhal I've been blunt with you many times. Also I actually think you're pretty cute, which I've mentioned before.
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@ellistia Yeah, that relationship was fun while it lasted. I guess a lot of weird and cute things come my way, but I seem to have a hard time really getting close to people.
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@clayinthecarpet Thanks
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@northernnarwhal I still have those pictures of you saved. XD
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@clayinthecarpet I don't know how I should feel about this
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@northernnarwhal Not very special, honestly. I save pics of all my friends because I like to know who I'm talking to. Not being willing to share pics of yourself strikes me as odd and scary.
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@northernnarwhal That is my favorite!
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@northernnarwhal Mm. It's a shame, a lot of the most likeable people seem to have these troubles.
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@clayinthecarpet I think it's fine to not want to share pics of yourself. You could be uncomfortable with showing people yourself, or you could be very young in which posting pictures of yourself online could be dangerous. I think it's perfectly normal not to want to share pics.
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@northernnarwhal I hate the idea that people are lying and posing to be something else than what they actually are. Once you meet at least one crazy internet guy, you kinda sorta fear that happening again.
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@clayinthecarpet I'm just gonna say I disagree and not pursue this.
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@northernnarwhal Aww, I wouldn't be so sure of that.
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@northernnarwhal I like to think of myself as open-minded. The way I see it, the line between 'like' and 'love' is a much greater cause for concern than it ought to be. Even if you only think of someone as a friend, there's nothing really stopping any relationship from developing into a greater affection for one another.
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@northernnarwhal For the most part, yeah. But in the same way, I also personally believe it's possible for it to become non-platonic, should it fit the desires of both parties of course.
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@ellistia Yeah, then the next problem becomes reading the signs. I'm usually not good with being subtle or with reading subtly, though sometimes I don't see things right in front of me either :p
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@northernnarwhal Heh, that beats me too. As far as I can remember I
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@ellistia 've never had any signs to read. Either that or I have been completely missing them.
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@ellistia In my experience, a lot of the time the signs are there they're just really hard to pick up on.
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@ellistia Yeah, I'm usually a lot better being blunt with people. Usually when I'm subtle I'm too subtle or just blunt.
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@northernnarwhal You're real nice to talk to man
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@ellistia Thanks, considering I have a lot of self doubts about myself I really appreciate that :) You're great too.
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@northernnarwhal Thank you. I'm really not one to get into long conversations but sometimes there's just that appeal that makes you wanna keep talking.
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@ellistia Usually I love to talk to people but I end up being either too shy to instigate and continue or run out of things to say. I like you though, you get me. Lots of people here get me, and that's really special.
