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  1. Hitler would have done it again

    about 8 hours ago from gs.kawa-kun.com
  2. There once was a nation that swallowed a lie, I don't know why they swallowed a lie, perhaps they'll die?

    about 8 hours ago from web
    • And now, for everybody's favorite pastime, sobbing in the bathroom at work!

      about 10 hours ago from web
      • I thought the recommended amount so I will deck them

        about 12 hours ago from gs.kawa-kun.com
      • Already looked at the eclipse through a telescope with a sun filter. Pretty badass, could even see sunspots.

        about 12 hours ago from shitposter.club
      • ass.deals

        about 13 hours ago from cybre.space
      • $700 million well spent. Take THAT, the ekkkonomy! #

        about 11 hours ago from web
        • those bosses were so simple :3 http://rainbowdash.net/attachment/861513

          about a day ago from web
          • So Papa Spraytan is addressing the nation tomorrow night. What're the odds it's a Bud Dwyer reenactment?

            about a day ago from web
          • liberals don't understand why people put up with the racist uncle

            but he's the one with a truck, who when you need help moving, always volunteers, because you're family

            about a day ago from shitposter.club
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            • @katiekats Apology accepted. I understand why you lashed out, not feeling in a good way sucks and I know this is a sensitive topic for you as it would be with me in the same position.

              Would it be fair to say that you were lashing out at the idea of still loving your abuser when they are family? Because I definitely don't want you to feel like you should love them or anything along those lines, even being family doesn't excuse it. I would agree with your assessment. There was no basis for you to build love and trust on, and so it wouldn't be there. "They're family" would be meaningless due to that. It's more a turn of phrase to describe a certain feeling and connection you have for a family member, but you would need that in the first place. I think when I say "Because they're family", there is a connection there.

              about a day ago in context
            • @sim 
              mhm, due to lashing out, I didn't entirely get the point you were making and saw it more as a "well I get being angry at them but they're family so there will always be a little bit of love there you can't help" if that makes sense?

              Now I get your point, but at time I was just "well...there's no happiness at all, so I reject the idea that I even have the slightest love for them"

              Parents and extended that is. My sister was lovely. Just to be clear.  

              about a day ago in context
            • @katiekats That makes sense. I think for me, I would want to be understanding on both sides. If you did still feel some love for them because there was that connection too(But there isn't here), then I would want you to know that it would be understandable but it's still not right for them to abuse you. If you don't, I would want you to know that I think that is understandable too. Connection or not. What they did is wrong and not acceptable. I think I would reject the idea too. Definitely don't feel like you should have to feel one way or the other.

              I'm glad that your sister was lovely to you even when everyone else failed you both. I hope you got some familial love between each other growing up. There are no words for how tragic your upbringing was... I can only hope to never abuse my children when they are born, to do my best to love, protect and provide for them as a mother should. To learn from the mistakes I make and keep improving/growing.

              about a day ago in context
          • i watched 4 epis of konosuba and it was really boring

            about 2 days ago from web
          • NERTHOS believes in PRUDENCE, PIRATES and THE PLAGUE

            about a day ago from gs.kawa-kun.com
          • Huh. http://rainbowdash.net/attachment/861508

            about 2 days ago from web
          • i've found a Chocobo http://rainbowdash.net/attachment/861502

            about 3 days ago from web
          • You know, some people say I'm addicted to brake fluid

            But I can stop any time I want

            about 3 days ago from web
          • So let's add a heavy metal album to the list of projects I'm allegedly undertaking at present

            about 2 days ago from web
            • The mana series does love giant crabs http://rainbowdash.net/attachment/861506

              about 2 days ago from web
              • #

                about 3 days ago from web
                • Well, mark the first time looking for a job in the States where I was asked about any military service domestic or foreign.

                  about 3 days ago from web
                • Skype is such garbage

                  about 3 days ago from web
                • Another day, another day, what joys will Papa Spraytan bestow upon us now?

                  about 3 days ago from web
                  • send help, can't feel liver

                    about 3 days ago from web
                    • Think I might bite the bullet and finally try at a job in security. Overnight cleaning definitely has lost whatever sheen it had when I started.

                      about 3 days ago from web
                    • Everything I need to know about our grill I learned in two fish skewers.

                      about 3 days ago from web
                      • If no wait... When I win the Powerball I will buy back every house I ever lived in.

                        about 3 days ago from web
                        • https://gs.smuglo.li/attachment/747741 Yes, this is a good show. Sasuga Gamers!

                          about 3 days ago from gs.smuglo.li
                        • Fish confirmed undercooked, in a gross way. Grill's back on. More pumch

                          about 3 days ago from web
                          • Goddamn I'm an artist

                            about 3 days ago from web
                            • just did a race thing

                              about 3 days ago from gs.kawa-kun.com