Replies to chiefanchor
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@chiefanchor I'm glad things turned out to be not entirely terrible.
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@chiefanchor Good for you two! :)
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@chiefanchor You too. :p
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@chiefanchor Good luck!
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@chiefanchor It's not easy to come to terms with because emotions generally do not follow logical thought, but if you wanna talk to someone until such a point you've worked it through in your own mind, you can DM me even without being subscribed to me.
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@chiefanchor If this was a sitcom, the solution would be a sequence of increasingly overblown romantic gestures until she suddenly decides that actually she does have feelings for you after all. Then the indie love ballad swells up as we cut to a montage. But that's not how real life works, a lot of people will say cut your losses, move on, accept that it's not happening. Maybe. Mabye not. Right now you're obviously hurting badly, and you feel like you need to internalise an answer right now for the sake of closure, but I'd say try something different: Do nothing. Come to terms with your hurt, but don't close it off. Put some distance between you and the pain before you decide where you want to go.
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@chiefanchor That's definitely not the way to go about it so I don't know what crazy type of person was giving you advice.
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@chiefanchor I woke up like that yesterday. It made my day pretty bad.
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@chiefanchor it's hard to be happy alone. Even with good coping mechanisms there'll be a low period to endure after any relationship ends.
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@chiefanchor Oh well. Guess some don't see it as a natural thing.
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@chiefanchor Well, I can't really offer any better advice, since I've never really been in a serious relationship. :/ I mean... I could offer well wishes, I guess?
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@chiefanchor I honestly had a similar experience but didn't get attatched. I'm still friends with her and now It's like whatever.
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@chiefanchor You should never take relationship advice from someone like me, but in my honest opinion, if she knows how you feel about her and isn't returning the favor, it might be better to move on.
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@chiefanchor Ok, I was just bored. In all seriousness I can't give you any advice you would want to hear that Nerthos didin't say.
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@chiefanchor Not if you "accidentally" spill maple syrup on her. It would be worse to waste perfectly good syrup.
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@chiefanchor I said lick her neck, not ram it into her when she's not looking. Geez
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@chiefanchor Lick her neck
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@chiefanchor She played with you. Strike back. Shape her toughts.
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@chiefanchor Well, my solution is guaranteed to work, as long as you're willing to override her will with your own in case something goes wrong.
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@chiefanchor Well, that's how you actually do solve it. Get so far away you've completely forgotten the relationship itself. #DoNotTakeMyAdvice #IAmNotARoleModel
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@chiefanchor Everyone I see who's with someone always has relationship problems. I don't understand why people always get into them.
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@chiefanchor @mushi Professionals who study relationships and mental health will be able to guide you better than I can, but what I've learned from them in classes and by personal experience is that you'll be most ready for a new relationship when you're happy by yourself but still willing and open to new relationships. There's a lot more to say about it, of course, but that's the gist.
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@chiefanchor ok, i didnt use my best words anyway, But good luck with that
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@chiefanchor sorry if i sounded harsh to you, by the way....
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@chiefanchor Understandable. Well, I don't know what to tell you, other than if it isn't working it isn't working.
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@chiefanchor Well I tend to deal with those situations by psychological manipulation, and a handcrafted enviorment is the simplest way to do it.
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@chiefanchor Do you truly love this girl?
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@chiefanchor Well, it's simple, you love her, then you have to confront her in a moment and set of conditions shaped by you to your advantage. With that I mean, ask her out, but not anywhere and anytime, but in a moment when she'll feel compelled to say yes.
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@chiefanchor just telling you my reason to not try to help you
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@chiefanchor That's a difficult question to answer. I myself have never had a serious relationship. Sure, there have been small things I've had with a girl, but it's never been something that's made me... well, truely happy. I might get a lot of flak and shrapnel for this, but have you considered something like eHarmony? I mean, it works for a lot of people, so it's worth a shot?
